dreamingoftigers Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 I have just gotten my daughter's test results back after having her developmental assessment done. She has scored very low on cognitive development and I will be working three times as hard to help her with supports etc. throughout her childhood. This officially and unofficially ends my loveshack "career." I learned a lot here. I have loved so many of your comments and reaching out to me during what I felt were my darkest hours. Now I have to focus far far more on my family than I have been doing. Thank you everyone. I'll check back to the thread every now and then I guess. If you want to contact me otherwise, PM me and I'll give facebook or email details. But otherwise that's it. 8000+ posts. Not bad. :bunny::bunny::bunny: 26
M30USA Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 I have just gotten my daughter's test results back after having her developmental assessment done. She has scored very low on cognitive development and I will be working three times as hard to help her with supports etc. throughout her childhood. This officially and unofficially ends my loveshack "career." I learned a lot here. I have loved so many of your comments and reaching out to me during what I felt were my darkest hours. Now I have to focus far far more on my family than I have been doing. Thank you everyone. I'll check back to the thread every now and then I guess. If you want to contact me otherwise, PM me and I'll give facebook or email details. But otherwise that's it. 8000+ posts. Not bad. :bunny::bunny::bunny: Best of luck with everything. Thanks for contributing to some great threads. 2
anne1707 Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 Oh DoT! Why on earth does it always seem to rain and not shine for you! But if there is anyone who can do right for their daughter, its you. You are one fabulous lady with one smart, sassy head on your shoulders. We'll miss your advice, your humour and your honesty :love: 4
Robert Z Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 I wish you and your family all the best and good luck with the challenges that lie before you. 1
JourneyLady Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 Best of luck to you and remember to take time out for YOU from time to time. Prayers and I hope you enjoy the holidays... 1
ja123 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 I've always enjoyed and learned from your posts. Thank you! You will be missed ... May God bless your daughter, you, and your family. 1
AShogunNamedMarcus Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 Take care. Thanks for sharing in the threads we spoke in, thanks for the "likes" , and good luck. 1
gaius Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 Bring her over to the political forum and we'll help school her. I'm sure seeing something like that is a shock that makes you want to take drastic action but seriously, stop by once in a while. Don't totally disengage. Don't throw out a tool you admit has been very useful to you in the past. Only hurting yourself in the process. Plus I know being a former kid who's mom wanted to help him a lot I wish she would have gone and posted online somewhere occasionally and gave me a break. What a nightmare having a parent that never leaves you alone. 1
Emilia Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 Best of luck DoT. I'll miss one of my favourite BPDers. I love your posts and perspective. I hope all goes well for your daughter, if there is anyone that understands how to make this work it's you. 1
SoleMate Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 I'll miss you DoT, always look forward to your posts. Best wishes for your daughter's success! 1
Gold Pile Posted November 29, 2013 Posted November 29, 2013 I'm sure LS has taken much of your time, I hope you only cut back instead of "retire". You're intelligent, witty, and honest.........you'll be missed. And many here will want to know how things are going for you. I'm sad that things are rough for you, I wish you the very best. 1
Acacia98 Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 Take care, dreamingoftigers. I loved reading your posts on the forums. I wish you and your family all the best. 1
regine_phalange Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 Good luck, to you and your sweet girl! 1
KathyM Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 I'm sorry to see you go. I've really enjoyed your posts. You are such a devoted mother. I hope all goes well for you and your daughter. 2
stillafool Posted December 3, 2013 Posted December 3, 2013 Dream you're a great mom. I wish you the best and please pop in whenever it's conveinient for you to let us know how you and your little one are doing. 1
whichwayisup Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 I'm sorry to see you go. I've really enjoyed your posts. You are such a devoted mother. I hope all goes well for you and your daughter. Ditto! Drop me a line if you're logging into LS. Stay cool dreamy! 1
Mr Scorpio Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 Always a bummer to see someone go, but I couldn't think of a better reason for someone to do so. 1
Furious Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 DOT I think you're so intelligent and have amazing insight and wit and you'll be sorely missed here at LS. You're a great Mom and I'm sure you will do everything possible for your lovely and precious daughter. Bless you 1
OpenBook Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 You know, every kid has a different development timeline. And they grow in spurts. I know your daughter is going to be just fine - mainly because she's got a Mom like you. And you'll be back. Everybody comes back. You're in my prayers! 2
pureinheart Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 Hey hang in there girl, my prayers are with you and your family. I've had some real cool conversations with you and will miss them:( but possibly whatever was needed to be worked out was. You were able to feel safe and work out some really deep issues- it must have been hurtful and hard, but you did it. Now it's more time for your baby girl and you are well equipped to do that! Good luck to you love and hope it is possible for you to check in from time to time (((((((great big hugs))))))) 1
aliveagain Posted December 4, 2013 Posted December 4, 2013 My prayers are with you and your darling little girl, go be a mother. The universe is a huge place full of miracles and all you have to do is ask for some to come your way.
crederer Posted December 5, 2013 Posted December 5, 2013 COME BACK!!!! But in all seriousness, good luck.
BetrayedH Posted December 8, 2013 Posted December 8, 2013 No idea what to write, DoT. PM me when you find yourself lurking, please.
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