Breakup because of facebook

[justwhoiam]

I don't want to go back to him then repeate the same chapter again. i want to finish this chapter permenently.

 

Can anyone help me to be strong and tell me words to i can hate him please

You don't need to hate him. You need to recover from some sad event, that is letting someone go for good.

 

Keep yourself busy. Write a diary, get in touch with friends, watch a movie, take a walk, study/work, whatever. If you miss texting, do that with a female friend who can listen to you, she will understand. Have someone supporting you.

 

When you really think it's unbearable, write here for more advice. Watch some funny video on youtube, get yourself distracted.

 

Work on some goal, like planning a nice trip with some friend or family. A close friend is soon having her birthday? Start looking for a nice gift for her.

 

Get a new haircut. Have a demo makeup done. Buy something nice for yourself.

 

You will be fine. And go out and meet new people. In real life. You need that right now. You could get involved in some charity locally, in your community.

[diya]

Hii thank you for your advice.. i really inspiring.

 

 

but i have still fear that my mind wud change and i go back to him..

 

Many times we have broke up and when i learn to live without him he comes back in my life saying sorry etc and i am the emotional fool who forgives him

 

 

This time i really want to move on i really want to come out of this broken relationship :/

[xUnknown]

Hi..

 

My BF wants me to deactivate my FB. we are in longdistance relationship so he feel insecure.

 

I have never cheat he knws that very well but he feel insecure that someone will steal me from him if i talk with anyone.

 

Before few days jus for him i deactivate fb because he said he can't live with this insecurity so asked me to choose me or fb.

 

but after few days i feel so wierd. he loved me more after i left fb. but i was feeling wierd like i was not ME.

 

deep inside i feel he hasnt accept me what i am. i want him to accept me what i am with my all likes and dislikes. and dont knw what next thing i have to leave for him.

 

So i said accept me what i am or leave me. So he left me.

 

I just want him to me to accept what i am. now i sometimes i miss him.

 

and my mind says i did it right and my heart says i did wrong.

 

Have i taken wrong decision by saying this to accept me what i am ? and bringing fb in relationship is it ok ?

 

I want to forget him forever and to be honest my feeling are slowing going away for him ..

 

please show me the way so i can forget him completely.

 

 

Facebook is not real life. You both are in the wrong. He shouldn't be so worried about facebook...but then again, you're making it seem like its this HUGE deal. It's not...its a BS site for people to post crap to make themselves feel better. You both need to get over it. He needs to realize that FB shouldn't control the relationship, and you need to realize that all it is, is a webiste..get over it. If you love him get rid of it - at least for now for him to realize what a stupid thing this is.

[diya]

I understand. its just a website not a real world.

 

and if i let go in this just for him then he will continue doing this with all other matters

 

So its not a facebook issue for me, i just want him not to fight on the thing which doesnt matter in relationship. but i think he will nver understand this

[AlexiaBrinn]

Maybe he sees your facebook and thinks you are flirting withother people. if that is the case just change your language online and hell be fine. if he keeps insisting you get rid of your facebook, then get rid of him!

 

bossy people are not worth your time