FearingTEN Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 (edited) Hey all ! I am going to try my best to make this as short as possible , but full of detail . I need any advice I can get ! And please no "just leave her" comments . Not what I am looking for ! Basically my ex girlfriend broke up with me in June . About 2 weeks later , she went out with another guy . I did every mistake a man could (begging , crying , and pleading) until I realised that it was not working & decided to go NC and move on from there . I understood that he could possibly be a rebound but I said forget it and moved on . I cut her off completely until all of a sudden , one month later , she admits to missing me . I played hard to get (because I was still inlove with her) but basically we went back into contact after that . I knew that replying to breadcrumbs is a mistake but I just said "f*ck it" and did it anyways . At first , I was still trying to move on because I felt as if I was being friend zone . This went on about 2 months until one night she texts me "I think I <3 you." Slowly but surely , we fell in love again . We flirted and flirted and told each other that we love each other almost every week . She told me how bad of a boyfriend her boyfriend was . So much that she told me that she wanted to break up with him ! Now , I am not proud to admit it but she ended up cheating on him with me . But I couldn't help it . I loved her to death . So anyways , yesterday she officially broke up with him . She is now single . My question is .. should I just ask her out ? We are still flirting and saying we want each other but I don't want to ask her too soon ! I need help . when is the best time to ask her out ? 1 week ? 2 weeks ? When !! I want to ask her out . But I don't want to do it TOO soon & at the same time TOO late . Thanks for reading ! Needing any advice ! Edited November 28, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
Never Again Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 (edited) You don't. She broke up with you and bounced into another relationship, and now that she's unhappy she wants back with you. She needs to be stable and happy on her own before she can really commit to a relationship. If you get back with her too soon, she'll just leave you again. Best option: tell her that she needs to be single and that you'll consider it in a couple months. Less preferable option: hang out with her, take it slow and wait for her to ask you out. Either way, she dumped you. She needs to do the heavy lifting now. Edited November 27, 2013 by Pfenixphire 2
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Confusedguy81 Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 don't ask her out. She made the mess by breaking up with you; it's her job to clean it up.
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