Guitarisgood Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 She is the typical nice girl type. We share the same moral groundings, beliefs and everything in between. Yet we are not in a relationship although we have slept together and have planned trips for me to visit her parents etc. Now for the story: It is the end of the university semester and we are all out drunk and partying. She is looking for me and I walk out of the club to go look for her after not getting replies about where she is. As I walk out towards her, her male friend goes in for a kiss and they share a quick peck. I turn around and walk away. She comes chasing after me with excuses and messages. Her excuse was that he was a friend from back home (she is interstate) whom she bumped into and just as they were saying goodbyes, they have accidentally locked lips although they were going for a kiss on the cheek. I honestly do not believe that. I am honestly not angry. I am just annoyed. I know that we are not in a relationship but I thought there'd be some loyalty especially if you have feelings for someone. I spent the night dancing and everything yet when the situation presented itself that I could have escalated, I pulled back and did not let myself go. Now this has happened. I honestly do not know how to proceed. I can say I do have feelings for her and she most definitely has feelings for me but fact is she kissed another guy even if it only lasted a split second. How would you go about things?
d0nnivain Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 You admit that you aren't in a relationship. She can kiss anybody she likes. Also she didn't kiss him, he kissed her. It was just a peck. Seriously this was such a nothing. Let it go. 1
JamesM Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 She is the typical nice girl type. We share the same moral groundings, beliefs and everything in between. Yet we are not in a relationship although we have slept together and have planned trips for me to visit her parents etc. I am honestly not angry. I am just annoyed. I know that we are not in a relationship but I thought there'd be some loyalty especially if you have feelings for someone. I spent the night dancing and everything yet when the situation presented itself that I could have escalated, I pulled back and did not let myself go. Now this has happened. I honestly do not know how to proceed. I can say I do have feelings for her and she most definitely has feelings for me but fact is she kissed another guy even if it only lasted a split second. How would you go about things? Decide if she is worth chasing because at this point...as you have stated....you are NOT in a relationship. End of story. There was no cheating. And speaking of second chances, there was not "first chance" yet. You simply need to decide if you care enough about her to build an exclusive relationship. BTW, she is probably wondering the same thing right now. 1
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