wild_dan Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 My ex broke it off with me... i ket on talking to her for 7 months afterwards sometimes arguing sometimes we chatted ....now i am going no contact because friends is not good enough how long do i go no contact for and when do i call her
fixing Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 You go no contact for literally as long as it takes for you to have zero feelinsg towards her. Unfortunately by you continuing to talk to her for 7 months after BU, you are now at stage one.. So, if you still love her and want her, but she doesnt want the same, you need zero contact from now until your feelings for her dissipate. How long were you with her? 1
notthathard Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 Dude, you kept talking for 7 months after the breakup? Crazy You're in the friend-zone at the moment. Hard to get out of this place once your in especially if you were fighting when you were friends. Sounds like you want her back and that's why your doing 'no contact'. Bad idea. Cut total contact, don't look back. If she contacts you in the future saying she wants to try again or anything along those lines then jump on it if you really want it. If you get any messages other than that then ignore. If you get calls then let them go to voicemail. I'll be honest, at the moment if there is even a small chance it could take a looong time. 1
cavalier99 Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 Dude you go NC forever. Youll never recover like this. And you will never get her back with or without NC. You need to accept this or your going to be miserable for a very long time. Go NC and never look back. It is the only way. Good luck: Cav
Author wild_dan Posted November 27, 2013 Author Posted November 27, 2013 well .. there was talk of me and her getting back together ..she just needs space and the most iv gave her is couple of weeks... thats because i lost my phone and even then ...after two weeks it was the nicest she had been to me in a long time
cavalier99 Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 well .. there was talk of me and her getting back together ..she just needs space and the most iv gave her is couple of weeks... thats because i lost my phone and even then ...after two weeks it was the nicest she had been to me in a long time Talk is cheap. She dumped you and isnt with you. End of story. Time to grow a pair of balls and move on. I know it is tough but it is even tougher being in pergatory forever. You really need NC. She is playing you for a fool and you are happily obliging. Cav
Author wild_dan Posted November 27, 2013 Author Posted November 27, 2013 i payed for her to go to norway .. because we agreed that i would meet her there and possibly give it another shot .... no contact until feb ... feb is when im suppose to go norway
cavalier99 Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 i payed for her to go to norway .. because we agreed that i would meet her there and possibly give it another shot .... no contact until feb ... feb is when im suppose to go norway Get a refund. You are being used. You are crazy to wait until feb to be told you are just her bud and hang with her and not be with her. How much torture do you want!? You really need NC bad. 2
Author wild_dan Posted November 27, 2013 Author Posted November 27, 2013 just give up ... let her go .. aint as easy as that .. guess what shes already in norway . and i would enjoy to see her one last time even if it was as friends because the way we ended it sucked ,, so at least we can have a mutual break up and talk things through
cavalier99 Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 (edited) just give up ... let her go .. aint as easy as that .. guess what shes already in norway . and i would enjoy to see her one last time even if it was as friends because the way we ended it sucked ,, so at least we can have a mutual break up and talk things through Hmmmm Well you are going to do what you want but i know how this story ends. I IMPLORE YOU TO TAKE THE GOOD ADVISE YOUR GETTING HERE. Dont wast even more months of you life on this. This is really really unhealthy for you. Edited November 27, 2013 by cavalier99
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