alexjames Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 (edited) Ok, well, my first ever girlfriend I had (I'm 21!) ended things with me back in February. We were together just 8/9 months, but they were the best months of my life, and I can honestly say I loved her so much and done whatever I could for her, but for one reason or another she lost all love for me. I was heartbroken and honestly I've never felt so low as did the weeks/months after the day she left me, We have been NC since and I can't see that changing. Then in July a work friend tried picking me up again and set me up with a girl she knew, and Wow!! She was the most beautiful girl I have ever met. Her smile and beautiful eyes caught me straight away. We hit it off really well and soon (about 3 weeks later) became bf/gf. I finally felt myself moving on with a girl I had fallen head over heels for over a matter of hours to be honest! However, we went out on the town a couple of times and things didn't go smoothly! She would dance and grind with anyone she was close too and would go off to dance with other guys, and wouldn't hardly speak to me all night. All the rest of the time with her was great but not the nights we went out together! I couldn't handle it and she broke from me after just a month together as she wanted to be alone and couldn't take my 'jealousy and over reacting to her behavior''. Now, about 2.5 months later, all I think about is my 2 ex's! I have dated a girl a couple of times I met online but we didn't really click. So everything I do makes me think of them and how much I miss them. The most recent ex is constantly in my mind, I keep seeing her smile, smelling her perfume, thinking about the things she told me! We only lasted a month for God sake!! How can this all stop in my mind? Even listening to music makes me think of her (especially dance music) as it reminds me of them nights out, but I don't want to stop listening to my music!! I feel ridiculous, but can't see any way out?! Edited November 27, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
fixing Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 Sounds like the last ex behaved very inappropriate on nights out! I reckon you need to get back out there and date more!!!!!!! Than you wont have time to think of exe's
Author alexjames Posted November 27, 2013 Author Posted November 27, 2013 Well this hasn't helped matters! I just looked on the dating site I used in the past, and came across a really great profile. A lovely looking girl with a very in depth profile which sounded great. I started to look through her pictures, and low and behold, she has a picture on there of her with me last ex :'( I really didn't want to see that First time I've even seen a pic of her for a while
Stay Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 With a girl like your recent ex you're lucky to have caught that now. She's not ready to be a gf, she's the type of girl that isn't ready for all that commitment yet and she wants to have her fun. Trust me, my ex likes to have fun also but I just thought we could have fun together but no.. She enjoys the attention from other guys yet still wants me. She kept those things away from me cause nobody wants to hear that and stayed with me years. In the end she pretty much talked to someone else while with me and left me, found out everything about her and I just felt like the whole relationship was a lie. Be glad you got out before it got worse, in my opinion that girl just wants to have fun and you both had fun until you got too serious for her. Don't expect too much at this age, I'd say only the strongest will survive, if you find a girl that doesn't care too much about "living life" like that then maybe but you don't expect too much around this age.
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