EmilyPope Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 Long story short. A friend and I met and had been attracted to each other for about 2 yrs. When I was ready, we finally began hanging out more frequently and started to date. A few months later, Our signals got crossed and she thought I was being dishonest so she began seeing someone else. We never talked about what happened or how we truly felt about things. We just lashed out at each other, things escalated then we stopped talking as lovers but remained friends. I suppose. Since then, so many things have happened between us that leaves us emotional over each other. We just never talked about anything. We just try to act like nothing ever happened even though we know it did. I never got over her at all. I still think of her constantly, I still know in my heart we are meant to be for some reason, I often cry myself to sleep because being apart from her is so overwhelming, and no matter how hard I try to move on, I still feel like I'm bonded to her. I always have. It's like I feel her energy at all times and its crazy because I never felt this intense with anyone else in my life. I understood what went wrong between us before she even made mention of it. I get her because I feel her but I'm stuck with what to do. I would love to tell her how I really feel. I just don't know how because im not sure if its a good idea. I feel like if she truly wanted to be with me then she wouldn't have run away. I miss her strongly and I know she definitely misses me too. She's expressed this. I also know through observation that she is still into me but since she is seeing someone, she tries to push what she feels for me away and she's constantly fighting her feelings for me. We both do it and obviously it never works. We just end up going through these hot and cold cycles with one another instead of expressing the deeper feelings we have for one another. I really love her and I feel that we have so much unfinished business with one another. I just dont know how to get her to open up to me so we can really talk and start over. I let my pride and insecurities stand in the way before and I don't want to do it again. How do I show someone that I want her to be a part of my life and she is the only person I would like to be with without pushing her away by acting needy ?
d0nnivain Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 While she is dating this other person there isn't anything you can do.
mammasita Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 Perfect example of why communication is key.
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