ls32ssibm Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 Maybe you should have gone to Marine Corps OCS (like myself) instead of whatever Army commissioning outlet you used. I assure you the Gunny Sergeant Instructors would have taken you down a few notches with regard to how awesome you think you are. 1
Versacehottie Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 I play down the fact that I have money. While I do feel bad that you are getting some very tough love here in the forum, wondering if you have an overinflated sense of things? The quote above does not compute for me along with your occupation. I guess unless you have family money. The reason I'm pointing this out is because when you are describing the kind of woman you'd be interested in and the WAY you would be it sounds like for most part you want a girl who is objectified type. This would either be a pretty but dumb arm piece or a golddigger type. I think the fact that you are only pulling girls who are "7's" means you don't have the looks you think you do and I KNOW you don't have the money golddigers respond to OR BOTh!! You did say something about wanting a smart & professional sort of woman but they way you speak about how you want a relationship sounds like you just want to "SLOT" her in. That doesn't typically work with smart/professional types who are more all around 9/10's. Also your occupation and the authoratative type you present also doesn't really reel in the those type of girls either. I think you just think you want that sort of girl but it's not really who you will end up with or if you do there will be lots of conflict. I wish I could say change your attitude but it may be more just who you are. I think you could find happiness with a girl who is smart and driven about FAMILY but willing to follow your orders
Emilia Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 Also your occupation and the authoratative type you present also doesn't really reel in the those type of girls either. I think you just think you want that sort of girl but it's not really who you will end up with or if you do there will be lots of conflict. I wish I could say change your attitude but it may be more just who you are. I think you could find happiness with a girl who is smart and driven about FAMILY but willing to follow your orders OP is not in the military. 1
StanMusial Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 While I do feel bad that you are getting some very tough love here in the forum, wondering if you have an overinflated sense of things? The quote above does not compute for me along with your occupation. I guess unless you have family money. Yeah, maybe the salary of an Army officer is above average for Fayette-nam but that's about all. I doubt this is real.
Versacehottie Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 currently I'm an Army Officer in Special Forces training. I Really? That's what this means to me. Maybe there are nuances I'm not taking into consideration--and I certainly realize this is the elite group of it--but I'm taking in the information the same way a girl outside the military would take it. I sum it up and it all still means military to me.
Emilia Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 Really? That's what this means to me. Maybe there are nuances I'm not taking into consideration--and I certainly realize this is the elite group of it--but I'm taking in the information the same way a girl outside the military would take it. I sum it up and it all still means military to me. You don't want to believe everything you read. What he posted about the military - and especially about SF - is nonsense.
StanMusial Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 You don't want to believe everything you read. What he posted about the military - and especially about SF - is nonsense. Along with everything else. 1
Versacehottie Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 LOL, ok I get what you are saying. I was taking his occupation at face value--but thought that there was major disconnect between type of girl he says he wants and how he presents himself. It's all overinflated 1
jimloveslips Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 Dude, you're getting beat up pretty bad here! Just curious, do you have any guy friends? Or do you piss them of as well?
StanMusial Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 LOL, ok I get what you are saying. I was taking his occupation at face value--but thought that there was major disconnect between type of girl he says he wants and how he presents himself. It's all overinflated These guys pop up on the forum from time to time, talking about how they are really great in every way, and how they want an 8 of 10 or whatever. They eventually throw in the "nice, sweet, intelligent, good morals" bit after their ass is tore up some. They are all either liars or extremely deluded in regards to their own worth on the "dating market".
Versacehottie Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 I thought he was being genuine in his quest to find an answer to his problem but deluded on his stats and was calling b*llsh*t on $$$$$$$ and type of girl and looks he possesses. in any case, it's not likely to work with his current approach. #realitycheck
Under The Radar Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 Robin Sage is the final "litmus test" and culmination of training for Green Beret (U.S. Army Special Forces) recruitment/selection. It is easily one of the most unique, stressful, and challenging curriculums for any branch of military service in the free world. It not only requires physical prowess, but more importantly, an intellect and critical thinking skills of the highest order. IOW, if you successfully completed Robin Sage, you are one tough SOB and you've got the smarts to match. I shall not comment regarding humility.
Eivuwan Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 Robin Sage is the final "litmus test" and culmination of training for Green Beret (U.S. Army Special Forces) recruitment/selection. It is easily one of the most unique, stressful, and challenging curriculums for any branch of military service in the free world. It not only requires physical prowess, but more importantly, an intellect and critical thinking skills of the highest order. IOW, if you successfully completed Robin Sage, you are one tough SOB and you've got the smarts to match. I shall not comment regarding humility. IQ and looks are important, but not as important as personality, wisdom, and compassion in looking for the type of women he desires. I mean why would any secure confident woman want to go out with someone whose ego is this inflated and who objectifies people with numbers. 1
Under The Radar Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 I couldn't agree with you more. That's why I made the statement about humility at the end of my post. He will not find what he's looking for until he addresses that character trait. IQ and looks are important, but not as important as personality, wisdom, and compassion in looking for the type of women he desires. I mean why would any secure confident woman want to go out with someone whose ego is this inflated and who objectifies people with numbers.
Eggplant Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 I am almost always dating someone and I don't cheat so on the off chance I meet a hot girl I can't ask her out cause I'm taken at the time. KenSteel, why are you dating people you don't like? Have some dignity and stay single. Dating women you don't like is unfair to those women.
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