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We're both 16. and in High school.

 

I met this girl, we texted A LOT before we hanged out this past weekend, she said how excited she was for this Saturday. Then at the mall, her friend and her friends boyfriend stalked us this whole time and watched what was going on. I asked her once a little while after we first met and she was like Oh my gosh, this is the cutest thing ever, she called me perfect and cute and everything. And now shes like yeah I'm still interested but started sending shorter and shorter texts, I asked her to the movies and shes like I feel like I'm leading you on, but I dont know what I want. She says the only thing holding her back is that were in different schools, and because of this I try my hardest to get plans with her and all she says is maybe.

 

Can someone clear up the reality? Is she just not interested anymore?

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Well it is weird that she was so nice at you and suddenly starts drifting apart. I'm sorry but when we girls aren't interested anymore sometimes we just make excuses instead of giving a straight no for an answer. I think probably her friend didn't like you as much as she did, she listened to her friend and well, she is probably not interested anymore, sorry friend:/

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I asked her to the movies and shes like I feel like I'm leading you on ...

 

 

This is your answer: she is leading you on.

 

 

So that means it's time to move on.

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Alas, I think she's getting some peer pressure to not date you. For whatever reason when her friend & the friend's BF stalked you at the mall, one of them concluded that she shouldn't date you & she's not strong enough or mature enough to go against her friends. That's not a crack at her or you. Few people can be independent at 16.

 

I'd back off. Sorry.

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