Shepp Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 So I've been their with my now girlfriend... she'd call me everyday, come to my family functions, kiss me, even lay in bed with me and tell me how great we'd of been in another life planning out how we'd of lived our lies together. But then she'd freak out of nowhere, tell me she couldn't do it, she was getting to close, she'd lose me, ect ect ect But to me she was worth it cause She had really valid (well in her mind very valid) reasons for feeling like thatI loved her You just need to decide if shes worth it too you!
Author heart12 Posted December 1, 2013 Author Posted December 1, 2013 I don't think I have the option anymore. I messaged her this morning to kind of ask like what happened... how she was SO into it and then just done. She told me she thinks I'm amazing and had such a great time with me but prefers to be friends. I told her I got that but it seemed like you freaked out right when you started to feel we were a couple/relationship and she said yes and she doesn't want that right now. So I wished her the best and she said thanks that means so much. Where do I go from here? I have no moves left to make.
elbe Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 Hang out with her if you want - but I think you two are looking for something different out of one another.
husker1989 Posted December 1, 2013 Posted December 1, 2013 OP another man here, I'll give you my 2 cents. I'd got to coffee and I'd lay it out very respectfully with what I'm wanting out of this and exactly how you feel. I'd be bold about it, leave no gray area with her. Be blunt and tell her your feelings. Ask she how she feels and what she wants from this. If you two can't come to agreement with you guys being a couple or not then I would let her go. Communication is key here. When you guys kissed I wouldn't of say anything and I would of went about my evening with her having my arm around her etc. If she didn't like it she would of told you, don't put the thought of anything being bad into a woman's mind. Woman are thinkers and they will look at the "bad" from every different perspective and analyze it to no end (atleast in my experience). D
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