Sweetgirl28 Posted November 26, 2013 Posted November 26, 2013 A couple of weeks ago, I met this guy whom I hit it off with almost right away. We have only been on one "official" date, because he is currently out of the country for his job. However, we talk almost on a daily basis (he always initiates). So far, so good. The problem is that I am moving to the other side of the country in a few weeks. He is aware of this; yet he keeps in touch with me. I honestly do not see any future in this. It is also not a fling, because we barely see each other. What are his intentions?
beyondcrushed Posted November 26, 2013 Posted November 26, 2013 There may be not future but you never know what can happen. He may like you and want to at least keep in contact with you. It may be too early to ask questions like "what are your intentions", so go on with your life and enjoy it, don't worry about where it could lead to. Just go with the flow. Enjoy your conversations and see what happens. If you don't like him as a person, if you know you don't do LDRs, then you can always stop talking to him at any time. Just go with it, if you can handle that.
Author Sweetgirl28 Posted November 27, 2013 Author Posted November 27, 2013 On the one hand, it scares me a little (commitment issues maybe?), on the other I feel ready for a serious relationship. Been fooling around too much in the past two years. I am just not sure what he wants.
d0nnivain Posted November 27, 2013 Posted November 27, 2013 Who knows what he wants? At this point with respect to him, you can't know what YOU want. Keep chatting. Hopefully see each other again before you move. Keep chatting. Then once you are settled in, see if you want an LDR. (I don't recomend it) Perhaps he has reason to be in your new location more often than you think.
Adele0908 Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 Maybe it feels like less pressure to him because you are moving. Maybe he just likes talking to you. Maybe he wants to date you. There's no way of knowing so early on. Just enjoy it and have no expectations or attachments to it. 2
coolfriendlygal Posted November 28, 2013 Posted November 28, 2013 You should talk to him is he initiates, he surely is interested in you. give it sometime and see if it works out for you both. Long distance relationships can sometimes be better than with those with people around you. 1
Author Sweetgirl28 Posted November 30, 2013 Author Posted November 30, 2013 It confuses me, because he hasn't suggested another meeting/date for when he is back in town.
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