My ex versus my rebound

[ThomasJ]

I broke it off with my girlfriend (girl 1) of three years, three months ago, since I found myself cheating on her (with girl 2), and realized that she deserved better, and came to the conclusion that my feelings towards her was gone. Now three months later, and a lots of drama she I find myself in a rebound relationship with girl 2.

 

Now, there is nothing wrong with Girl 2, it is mainly because i lack interest in her, since I know Girl 1 is starting to get over me by having sex with random guys she can't even remember the name of. When I heard about this, my feelings towards girl 1 increased, and I want her to be mine, not other boys sex toy.. So I made up this mind map, to figure out what i should do. I am not sure if which one i should go for.

 

Any suggestions, or things I need to consider?

Press Here for the Mind Map

 

 

PS: I know that I am able to get my ex back - that she has said.

Girl 1: Megan

Girl 2: Jennifer

[sun1972]

so, in a nutshell you weren interested in your ex until she slept with other guys?

 

sounds like pure jealousy and not much else.

 

Its interesting how minds work, im working things out with my recent ex, but the second she slept with someone else... i wouldnt want her.. i guess we are all different.

[Andy_K]

I had a look at your mind map.

 

Megan sounds like a pain in the ass, so if I were you I'd pick Jennifer. Especially as you've already had a failed relationship with Megan.

[BeholdtheMan]

Now, there is nothing wrong with Girl 2, it is mainly because i lack interest in her, since I know Girl 1 is starting to get over me by having sex with random guys she can't even remember the name of. When I heard about this, my feelings towards girl 1 increased, and I want her to be mine, not other boys sex toy.. So I made up this mind map, to figure out what i should do. I am not sure if which one i should go for.

 

Any suggestions, or things I need to consider?

Press Here for the Mind Map

You need help

[sun1972]

i know this is a serious thread, but..when i went onto the mind job and saw the pro and con of bj's etc i have to admit it made me smile ;p

[skela]

I think you should get girl 1 and girl 2 to do a mind map of you and see if either of them want to stay with you. You don't genuinely seem interested in either of them - start fresh.

[ThatMan]

Are you autistic?

[Ruby Slippers]

I notice that you deem both women "overly attached".

 

And you are evaluating both as pathways to your career aspirations through their "well-connected" fathers. How strange it must be think to think of people this way.

[odin673]

Seems like a no brained to me, one swallows and the other won't even give bjs.

 

But seriously, what makes you think girl 1 would take you back. Would you sweep your cheating under the rug? It doesn't sound healthy.