ThomasJ Posted November 26, 2013 Posted November 26, 2013 I broke it off with my girlfriend (girl 1) of three years, three months ago, since I found myself cheating on her (with girl 2), and realized that she deserved better, and came to the conclusion that my feelings towards her was gone. Now three months later, and a lots of drama she I find myself in a rebound relationship with girl 2. Now, there is nothing wrong with Girl 2, it is mainly because i lack interest in her, since I know Girl 1 is starting to get over me by having sex with random guys she can't even remember the name of. When I heard about this, my feelings towards girl 1 increased, and I want her to be mine, not other boys sex toy.. So I made up this mind map, to figure out what i should do. I am not sure if which one i should go for. Any suggestions, or things I need to consider? Press Here for the Mind Map PS: I know that I am able to get my ex back - that she has said. Girl 1: Megan Girl 2: Jennifer
r321148 Posted November 26, 2013 Posted November 26, 2013 Well the right thing to do is probably to get rid of both. I have to be honest I didn't look at your mind map as I think it's irrelevant and there is enough information in your post. Girl 2 should definitely go. If you don't have romantic feelings for her and are even considering going back to your ex then that's not fair on her at all. How would you feel if you found out you were in her situation? You are just stringing her along to fill a void in your life and that's not a good basis for a relationship. Girl 1 is more difficult. You cheated on her but at least you recognised that this wasn't fair on her and did the right thing by breaking up with her. I'm not sure that your reason for wanting to get back together is a good one though. So you're not really sure that you want her but you don't want other guys to have her? The fact that you felt your feelings go before and they only increased when you found out that she was sleeping around suggests that when/if you get back together it'll only be a matter of time before your feelings disappear again. I think again if this this is the case then the best thing to do is to let her go too. You need to think hard about this. Keep going back and forward isn't fair on either. You should definitely break up with girl 2 asap. Girl 1 you need to work out what is really in your heart. Think about what went wrong last time and whether anything has really changed to make things work this time. 1
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