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Hey everyone, The last time I was on here was about a Year ago, Ive completely changed since then, I'm a far more confident person since then. I'd first like to mention I won't be able to add paragraphs because of my phone, I'll add them when I get home. Basically, my first relationship ended nearly 12 weeks ago, we met at the beginning of May and it quite rapidly evolved into a romantic relationship, I lost my virginity to her, and She lost hers to me, I was also her first Boyfriend and Love. It ended because she got accepted into Edinburgh University, Edinburgh is exactly 250 Miles away from Sheffield (where Im from) I initiated NC and haven't spoke to her for nearly 9 weeks now. Last Friday I went out (this is where it becomes a little strange) I was talking to one of my Ex's best friends (she has a few best friends) And her friend told me to add her in Facebook, because I was showing her something on my phone, but this Girl who was with us said "add me too!" She then took my phone and have me her number, I was pretty surprised because she was absolutely gorgeous! 10 minuets later, we kissed, We spent the test if the night together, (kissing multiple times and all that) I even went home with her but nithing happened in the end because her parents were about due to it being this girls first night out. I didn't mind though, I thought she was too cute to just want casual sex with, she also asked me to go meet up with her next Saturday. When I got home, we text for about 15-20 mins, she then said "Are you going to text me tomorrow? I'll be upset if you don't" I said "course I will, I wouldn't if spent the night with you" She told me that It was me that had made her first night, I was flattered to say the least. We text all Saturday, All Sunday, she was very rapid at replying, infact it was some of the fastest texting I've seen from a girl I've had an interest in. Sunday Ended with me saying "Sleep well xxx" she replied with "You too! <3 xxx" Yesterday I text her at about 11am "Morning!:) xxx" think she was at school (shes 17, Im 19) She "read it" (both have IPhones) I got a reply about 45mins later saying "Hey James, thing is...I can't get you out of my head" then I got another text saying "That was my mate Tom!" I replied about 20mins later with a simple "haha:p how're you?xxx" To try and make her not feel awkward. She's "read it" but I haven't heard from her since? I assume she had been talking about me, hence why her friend text me saying that, and that maybe she's embarrassed. I'm ever so slightly puzzled, I didn't text her again because Im a strong advocate of not looking desperate, but I don't know what my next move should be and when?

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Could have been many things. Maybe she feels she's moving too fast and wants to take a step back, maybe she's courting many people, maybe she was abuducted by the cybernetic ghost of christmas past from the future (high 5 to anyone who gets the reference). Either way it's not even been a whole day yet so I'd just be patient and wait it out.

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