joel Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 I was told by a freind since i am an unexperience rookie when it comes to girls, is you have to be freinds with them first, talk to em like ur talking to guys and then ask em out. What you don't do is what i did was make small talk with the girl wait a couple of days and make a little more small talk and then ask her out-ur just scaring her and why would she go out with u since she doesn't now u either well enough or at all. this is a scenario off campus in college. what do u guys think.
alphamale Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 Originally posted by joel I was told by a freind since i am an unexperience rookie when it comes to girls, is you have to be freinds with them first, talk to em like ur talking to guys and then ask em out. What you don't do is what i did was make small talk with the girl wait a couple of days and make a little more small talk and then ask her out-ur just scaring her and why would she go out with u since she doesn't now u either well enough or at all. this is a scenario off campus in college. what do u guys think. why on earth would a girl be interested in you if you treat her like one of your guy friends? the worst way to date a woman is to become friends with her. once you're in the 'friends zone' it is very hard to get out. how about just talking to some honey for 15 minutes, make her laugh, then ask her for her #? if she say YES then you are good to go, if she says NO then you move on to the next honey.
gridiron Posted December 30, 2004 Posted December 30, 2004 There's a huge gulf between just small talking and establishing a friendship first before you ask her out, and neither one is right. Establish some rapport first, flirt with her, show some sense of humor, get to know her interests, then ask her out. You don't need to go from talking about the weather or current events to asking her out. Just know enough about her to have a nice lead-in to asking her out. If she says she likes certain types of movies, food, or sporting events, discuss these areas of interest with her and then you can say, hey, did you see the new movie/have you been to this restaurant/have you gone to a game here/whatever it is, then ask her out. It doesn't have to be the first time you meet her, but don't let it drag on for too long and no, don't wait until you are friends first.
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