tanbark813 Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 So after one week of trying to make things work, my gf has decided things aren't going to change and has called it off. Apparently my wanting her to be open and honest makes her constantly feel like a bad person around me and she thinks we have very different needs. On the upside, at least being the dumpee carries with it the luxury of not having to second-guess the decision.
Pocky Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 And now you don't even have to worry about the coke... You knew it wasn't going to last anyway. You weren't really happy with her.
tiki Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 Well, sounds like you made the right decision by allowing her to dump you...if that makes you feel any better.
iceisles Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 I got the same hypocrisy with my ex-gf. She wanted honesty me from but always shied away from it herself. If a girl can't be open with me, I don't want to be with her anyway.
alphamale Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 Originally posted by iceisles I got the same hypocrisy with my ex-gf. She wanted honesty me from but always shied away from it herself. If a girl can't be open with me, I don't want to be with her anyway. this is typical female behavior in a relatinshiip. this is why i preach that you take advantage of them (women) b4 they do it to you. women say a lot of things, i want honest, i want love, i want this and that but most of it is krap. they say they want "nice guy" but end up with a dickhead that treats 'em like shyt. don't listen to what they say. be your own man and lie cheat and steal if you have to to get puzzy and keep a woman around. see. here is examlple. your woman gains 30 lbs. she buys new size 14 $200 dress and ask u if she looks fat in it. she does not want to hear "oh, honey u really gained weigh and look like a heffer in that ugly outfit. she want to her a lie which is " oh dear, you look stunningly radiant, i've never seen u look so elegant"
Author tanbark813 Posted December 29, 2004 Author Posted December 29, 2004 Originally posted by Pocky You knew it wasn't going to last anyway. It was definitely a concern. btw, I like the quotes in your sig, especially the second one.
GirlDown Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 so you're on the market then, eh... sorry to hear about your troubles. feel better. i think you are better off without her. i never understood why people put up with things they don't agree with. it's not like that particular person is the one you have to be with... what's love go to do with it?
Author tanbark813 Posted December 29, 2004 Author Posted December 29, 2004 Originally posted by GirlDown so you're on the market then, eh... Indeed. Originally posted by GirlDown what's love go to do with it? D'oh.. Now I have that song in my head....
Sukotto Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 What's love but a second hand emotion.... My ex decided to have another go and then it took her a week to change her mind, make sure you put her foot down when she tries to get close to you again, I suspect she'll do it within a week.
whichwayisup Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 i never understood why people put up with things they don't agree with. it's not like that particular person is the one you have to be with... what's love go to do with it? Everything. Sadly enough sometimes... Well, just keep yourself busy, do things that make you laugh, have some fun, see "meet the ****ers" lol, and just take it all one day at a time!
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