why did she txt me?

[Amaury]

Ill try to make this short. 1yr 9 month relationship, towards the end she got distant was confused kept coming bck and forth when she wanted it was confusing we broke up, after a month of only hi and bye at work, on her last day(which it wasn't) I offered to hang out to clear the air, not get back together just to get some clarity and closure. I found out she slept with 3 guys (she told me) in the 1 month I was upset but I acted like I didn't care in front of her.

 

Then a week or so of NC she starts hitting me up calling me for a week and leaving voicemails saying she is wondering how I'm doing and that she is worried (because I didn't respond to 5-7 attempts) I acted like I've been busy kept my answers short. Then a few days later I was upset over what she did and I sent her a funny image which implied me calling her a slut and she never wrote bck so I sent it again a few days later and no response. I regreted it after, not because I was mean to her but because I let her get the best of me and I shouldve just never responded in the first place.

 

2 weeks of NC passes, and she txted me saying "I quit yesturday", I said "congratulation", she said "Thanks.How have you been?" I said "good, and you?" She said "Chilling killing" I said "lol ok", she says "mmmhmm" and I never wrote back. Its been a few days since. What was the point of her txting me? To rub it in my face that she got a new job? She regrets what she did and feels bad, or she wanted to stay intouch with me atleast?

[BC1980]

She's just curious. I would continue to ignore.

[fixing]

Yeah, she's just poking you to see if your still alive. I dont really know your background, but if she broke it off with you and told you she slept with 3 men in that short time frame. I suggest you ignore all texts/calls you get from her. Its not worth the mind ****s that it causes. Go 100% no contact. She's just toying with you to get a reaction.

[Confusedguy81]

sounds like someone who loves to get around. I would avoid her.

[strive]

To see if she still has any hold on you. (And she does!) Telling you to stop asking yourself 'why did she contact me' all the time is easier said than done. But it's what you have to work on. It's okay if she contacts you, but you have to be stronger in your resolve not to reply.

 

Good luck! You're back to day 0 of NC, but I'm sure it'll be easier this time around.

[aloneinaz]

Take your emotions out of this. Ask yourself what you'd tell your buddy if he was in your shoes. You ask him WTF's wrong with you that you'd even consider talking to this POS again.

 

GO full NC and find someone else.