Davenande Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 Just a thought so people don't actually contact their exes when they get in contact. Write your desired response here. If mine does the usual 'I wanna be friends' thing I would love to say this: No X, I can’t do that. I was a mess when we ended things, definitely not the kind of person I thought I’d ever be. I see now I was devastated about the person that I thought you were at the beginning, who gradually disappeared the longer we were together. I clung to that for way too long after you showed me who you really were. It might sound brutal but I really don’t want anything to do with you. I hated the person that I became around you, and I’d never risk that again for a relationship/friendship/whatever else this was meant to be. And if you ever think about why we broke up, it’s because you cheated on me. No other reasons that you may have convinced yourself of, they were peripheral. You cheated and I desperately and pathetically tried to apologise for you. I’ll never apologise for anything like that again, so thanks for that lesson. Happy hookups. X
Author Davenande Posted November 25, 2013 Author Posted November 25, 2013 I also cringe at the end when I think about how I wanted to break up in person but he forced me to do it over the phone. It was too hard in person apparently, too much for him. I remember one of my last words being 'Well maybe in a few months we can try again?" and him replying "Yeah. That sounds like a good place to leave things to me." WELL OF COURSE IT ******* DID. What was I thinking? He was so awful to me and I've blamed myself for such a long time. UGH! Hopefully this anger can propel me to a better future. I'd like to mention something about that again but got to keep these responses concise
organizedchaos Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 How about no response to breadcrumbs. 5
Never Again Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 How about no response to breadcrumbs. I think that's the real point. You post you WANT to put here so that you don't actually send it. I get the idea is to not want to respond, but some people aren't at that point lol
organizedchaos Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 I think that's the real point. You post you WANT to put here so that you don't actually send it. I get the idea is to not want to respond, but some people aren't at that point lol Ah, well, in that case I'd say "eff off!" 2
Jmk21 Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 This is a great idea, it will give the newcomers something to touch base with instead of making new threads. I haven't heard from my ex in 3weeks now. Been 3 months since we have split. If she texts me ill post it in here instead of replying like I did last time. But I really doubt she will. And I really prefer it that way though
AnyaNova Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 If he ever did, all I would have is one question. And perhaps I would reconsider if he could actually come up with a good response. "You weren't there for me when I most needed you, why should I be there for you?" 3
LostConfused123 Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 (my name) was eaten by crocodiles while hunting on an African safari. Sorry to be the one to bring you this tragic news. . . Buh Bye either that or go eff yourself!!!! Can't decide. . . haha!!!! :-) 3
LostConfused123 Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 (edited) LOL!!!!! Ah snap!!! Love that one!!! The ultimate diss!!! Who is this? Edited November 25, 2013 by LostConfused123 didn't ad quote 1
Transplant Posted November 26, 2013 Posted November 26, 2013 I play golf twice a week with the new DA (District Attorney); you better send my stuff back
LostConfused123 Posted November 26, 2013 Posted November 26, 2013 I am so glad Davenande started this discussion. These responses are cracking me up!!! Feels good and nice for a change to look at this from a comedic point of view and not be so serious for a bit. THANKS!!
ks0985 Posted November 26, 2013 Posted November 26, 2013 Her: Hey sorry how things went out, i just wanted to tell you that i miss you... Me: dont message me unless you want to work things out, im not interested in just being friends. That was 2 weeks ago, have not heard from her since and i have gone on 3 dates in the past 2 weeks. Moving forward and not looking back i know what i want she does not. Oh well **** happens 1
LostConfused123 Posted November 26, 2013 Posted November 26, 2013 "Who is this?" Not to get off topic but this reminded me of something. I broke NC years ago after a few months. I was the dumpee and was texted this by the DUMPER!!! Yeah!!! It's funny to think of the dumpee saying this but when it's the Dumper. . . OUCH!!!! Not to threadjack but wanted to share in case anyone who is thinking of breaking NC reads this. DO NOT DO IT!!!! Okay, carry on
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