Locust Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 I'm on a dating website and I was talking to a Indian woman but she seem kind of boring with simple replies to her messages. And she never bothered to look at my profile anyway. However, I have Russian and Ukrainian women viewing my page and had one send me a message saying wow! I feel nervous to send them a message and its because I feel since I'm different skin color compared to what Russians and Ukrainians have and what their taste desires for. I had couple of them view my profile twice but again I don't bother send a message. But I do attempt with Indian women and not much success. For Russian and Ukrainian women I don't know what should I say in a message or to any woman for that matter. The Indian girls I message were nerds and I thought since I have interest in science thought it would lead to conversation but I was wrong. One of my main issues sending a message is I don't know what exactly to say. I'm good at replying but starting a message I'm really dull.
Author Locust Posted November 25, 2013 Author Posted November 25, 2013 No help... I guess I will go back just seeing escorts. I give up.
pteromom Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 I feel nervous to send them a message and its because I feel since I'm different skin color compared to what Russians and Ukrainians have and what their taste desires for. All Russian and Ukrainian women don't like the exact same kind of guy. You need to just accept that the right woman for you will like you for who you are! For Russian and Ukrainian women I don't know what should I say in a message or to any woman for that matter. One of my main issues sending a message is I don't know what exactly to say. I'm good at replying but starting a message I'm really dull. You can never go wrong asking someone about herself. If she mentions a vacation in her profile, get her talking about it. If she says she loves her dog, talk about her dog. If she says she likes a certain tv show, talk about the tv show. Just be who you are and don't take rejections personally. Remember you are trying to weed through a large number of incompatible women to find the one/ones who may be compatible.
Author Locust Posted November 26, 2013 Author Posted November 26, 2013 All Russian and Ukrainian women don't like the exact same kind of guy. You need to just accept that the right woman for you will like you for who you are! You can never go wrong asking someone about herself. If she mentions a vacation in her profile, get her talking about it. If she says she loves her dog, talk about her dog. If she says she likes a certain tv show, talk about the tv show. Just be who you are and don't take rejections personally. Remember you are trying to weed through a large number of incompatible women to find the one/ones who may be compatible. Some of them don't have descriptions in their profile so it makes it harder.
Author Locust Posted November 26, 2013 Author Posted November 26, 2013 Overall, I think I will just give up. Dating is just too hard for me. Just like some people change their majors in college because they have difficultly passing certain subjects, that idea applies here as well. Meeting people outside of the US will be hard because of the distance. As long I have money for escorts I will just visit them for companionship and dating. I guess my physical facial features cannot catch a woman eyes and make her feel attracted toward me. I just give up, its probably the better option.
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