python23 Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 (edited) Hello all I need some advice. I've been texting a girl off a dating website since last Wednesday so not long but she seemed really interested and we've chatted a lot. After 2 days I asked whether she fancied going out on sunday for something to eat. She said yes of course. She was also the one texting me first mostly. Asking how my Friday night was and wanting to know if I got home safe. She seemed really interested. I asked her on Saturday what time she wanted picking up. She said my mum has told me to be available because she might want to do something with me. I was thinking Ok how old are u 14 ? Ha. She's 20. I said cool let me know when you find out. She still text me throughout Saturday. On Sunday I text her first saying morning and askin what her plans for the day were. She said going to have a lazy day. Need to find out if my mum still wants me. I said ok let me know. So I waited till 4 and asked if she knew. She said sorry babe can't tonight. This is how it's gone since then.... Morning how was night ? X "Morning. It was crap. Would rather have spent it with you x" Aww why what did you get up to? X Mum took me to a really rubbish curry house. What did you get up to? X That's no good is it. I went for a curry too with a few friends. Was a really good night. Although I'd have prefered to have taken you out. X (Me again. 3 hours later. At 2 pm today) fancy going Tuesday night instead? X She replied straight away with "if I can x" I replied with "ok never mind if you can't" I've not heard anything since. It's now half 8. The last thing il be doing is chasing her now. I'd just like some advise as I really like this girl Edited November 25, 2013 by python23
d0nnivain Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 I can't tell you why she's doing this . . . hard to get (game playing) v. not interested. From what you posted it could be either. If you like her, chase her. If she tells you to back off, do it. If it all seems like too much trouble , fade off into the distance. the choice is yours. 1
todreaminblue Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 for starters she is not immature for saying mum might want to do something with me......but......if she was really interested in you ....she would have said yes on the spot...either she is playing hard to get or the dreaded "she is just not that into you".....i would go with games as she said she would have rather gone out with you....so pinpoint her down to a date or move on.,........deb 1
todreaminblue Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 I can't tell you why she's doing this . . . hard to get (game playing) v. not interested. From what you posted it could be either. If you like her, chase her. If she tells you to back off, do it. If it all seems like too much trouble , fade off into the distance. the choice is yours. said exactly the same thing.....different way..... jinx....lol....deb
Author python23 Posted November 25, 2013 Author Posted November 25, 2013 I've just text her now asking how her days been. Il see if she replies. She's probably got a few options. Thanks for the advice 1
Author python23 Posted November 25, 2013 Author Posted November 25, 2013 So I've had no reply and she's been online on the dating website all night. Safe to say she's lost interest. Never mind her loss
winny Posted November 26, 2013 Posted November 26, 2013 So I've had no reply and she's been online on the dating website all night. Safe to say she's lost interest. Never mind her loss If she had some interest in you at least she would have replied to your text and planned for another date. Time to move on
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