ponchsox Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 Mine was 9/26/13. I think I've developed a new calendar for myself, pre breakup and post breakup, kinda like BC and AD, lol.
Never Again Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 I know all the important dates for my last relationship, including the breakup, the closure talk, each time NC was broken..... My brain actively works against me. 06/13/2013 1
aaron11892 Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 yup, hard not to remember...seeing as it was a day after our 6 month anniversary...hope she realizes what she lost, silly girl.
MoooOinkBaaa Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 yeah i can't ever forget that date. 13/9/13 that's right friday the 13th. ~98 days since Dumped. 73 days since BU. 52 days of NC.
d0nnivain Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 Closer in time to when the break-ups happened but as they years have passed, I can tell you the months for some of them but most I have no idea. Really , it's better not knowing. I hope you all find that peace as time passes. Don't fixate on the date in the long term. It will only delay your healing.
reddragon588 Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 Yes I do know it, but I try to put it out of my mind. There are far more important things I could use that memory space for. I still haven't forgotten it yet unfortunately though. 1
Am4Real Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 We do for the most recent...but can you easily (easily is the jey word here) cite the dates of the two breakups previous to the current one (if you have had this many)? I'll bet it can't be recited easily and therein lies the eventual freedom...all granted by this wonderful thing we shall call "time". 1
Never Again Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 We do for the most recent...but can you easily (easily is the jey word here) cite the dates of the two breakups previous to the current one (if you have had this many)? I'll bet it can't be recited easily and therein lies the eventual freedom...all granted by this wonderful thing we shall call "time". Most recent breakup: 06/13/2013 Previous Breakup: 04/16/2012 Previous Breakup: 03/06/2008 As I said, my mind actively works against me. 2
Am4Real Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 Apparently!! Most recent breakup: 06/13/2013 Previous Breakup: 04/16/2012 Previous Breakup: 03/06/2008 As I said, my mind actively works against me.
30andsad Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 Left the house for a break: 9/28/2013 (day after our 4 year anniversary) Broke up: 10/15/2013
fixing Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 Yep, 17/sept/2012. That was the day i discovered she had slept with another guy lol. (Dont worry, im over her completely, just that, that is my 'last BU date')
MoooOinkBaaa Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 i love your username fixing, your ex can suck eggs. 1
LostConfused123 Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 10/24/2013 NC since. Well one stupid breadcrumb from him about a week ago. Damnit. Guess I have a long way to go. Grrrrrrrrrr!
AnyaNova Posted November 26, 2013 Posted November 26, 2013 The actual breakup date, I had to scroll through a lot of text to even put it together (and I didn't find the exact panicked note I sent to a friend letting him know on the day, that it had happened, that I really felt like I needed to get out of the house and go to "game night about 40 miles away," but that I was in no condition to drive. He literally drove all the way down to pick me up). You really find out who your friends truly are! I don't think it highly likely that said friend would ever read this, but on the off chance, if you read this and recognize your own gallant and wonderful behavior, I still cannot thank you enough!!! Anyway, the date must have been July 20th, 2013. Of the official breakup. Again folks, can't put in a wonderful enough plug for NC right after a breakup. I wouldn't be posting here now, if I had! Of course, I wouldn't have gotten to the gym and all the wonderful things if I hadn't, but still. NC contact ad nauseum repetend. NC! Our "last meeting" that started the whole fun traumatic bond thing, was September 06th, 2013. A Friday. And another of my friends was actually visiting from out of town and staying with me. He was positively wonderful as well. And again, if this friend reads this and recognizes himself, I cannot thank you enough, either! :-)
cavalier99 Posted November 26, 2013 Posted November 26, 2013 (edited) BU 10/3/2012 and it was the last day i saw or communicated with her for about 8 months after that. Now we chat amicably. Waiting on a call from her now as I type. Probably some BS about her BF. Hahahah. Its all cool. She has given me some good advise when i need it about my dating life. Now I sometimes even forget to get back to her now or return a call or text and because im busy i ocasionally end up hanging up on her to take other calls and i forget to call back. I mean this is not necesarily good etiquette but i truly forget. The cool part is just 11 months ago I tormented myself over 1 email she sent me for like a month..now i forget to call back. woo hooo She is firmly in a friend category and never think of her romantically. Really is amazing how much NC can heal you. This time last year i was going insane..i mean literally insane with greif and loss. Rock on! Cav Edited November 26, 2013 by cavalier99
greenfairie Posted November 26, 2013 Posted November 26, 2013 I honestly don't even remember the day but I do remember the month we broke up. Is that a bad thing if I don't remember the day? :/ I feel like I kind of blocked it out on purpose and it's in my subconscious. I just won't allow myself to remember the dates maybe?
feelingtorn Posted November 26, 2013 Posted November 26, 2013 Sep 2. 4 days before my birthday. I caught him sexting with another woman while we were traveling in Europe. Instead of sleeping, he stayed awake and sexted 7 hours straight. Yes, he was a keeper.
InnocentMan Posted November 26, 2013 Posted November 26, 2013 Birthdays and anniversaries are actually a pretty common time for people to break up. It generally brings things to a head if there are already underlying problems. Christmas and new year is another popular time for break ups. I've broken up with plenty, and I don't remember any of the exact dates. Eventually, you don't really give a ****.
Real36 Posted November 26, 2013 Posted November 26, 2013 7/17/13 And tonight I'm thinking about him. Such a roller coaster of emotions. The 4 month mark is so much harder than I thought it would be. 1
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