DanielStone Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 Ok, I am not the best with woman at all.. I need a few bits of advice here Bit of background - I'm 18 she's 19 and we met in a club and I got her number saturday night. We were getting a drink and a guy next to us was really desperately trying to get this other girls number and the girl I was with said to me how she hates guys that throw themselves at her and she loves a bit of a chase... So, it would be best if I did the guy version of 'play hard to get' - No? If I should, how long should I wait to call / text her and what should I say? Thanks!!
fixing Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 So, you briefly talked to her at the bar on saturday, took her number and haven't texted her since then? Why dont you send her a text tonight and ask her if she wants to meet up sometime this week for a drink? If you only talked to her for like 15/30 minutes on saturday then i would feel 2 days later is perfect time to send that text. Make the text casual, something like 'Hey xxxxxx, its xxxxx from the club the other night, you fancy meeting up for a drink sometime over the week/weekend? Thats what i would do anyways Good luck
d0nnivain Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 Being Thanksgiving, this is a weird week. If you really want to play hard to get but not let that spark die, I'd send a text early (before 9 pm) on Wednesday wishing her a happy turkey day, then maybe call her next Monday (Dec 2) to get together next Thursday (Dec 5) so that you are not giving her prime dating nights. [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] Whoops just realized you're not American. the above doesn't apply. If you don't want to play games, call her today or tomorrow for a date Friday or Saturday but don't be surprised if she has family obligations.
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