ViciousLaLa Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 Forget the "it's an ex, move on" ****. I've always stayed friends with my ex's with no feelings attached, like they were before the dating. Since the break up, alil over a month now, we've stayed in contact. About a week or so ago, we were talking more than usual. He kept inviting to speak about games and random stuff. Around Thursday, he randomly messaged me, saying hey and that he had a pretty bad hangover. I replied saying I just got off skype with the bf and that we should skype sometime, what not. He hasn't replied. Hasn't been around. Its going on 3-4 days now. Thing is, I don't have a bf D: I lied and I don't know why! He had broken up with me, using the "It's best to just be friends." line. I have a feeling he's upset that I "moved on". I do care about this fool, course, but I love the friendship we have. I'm afraid I upset him. Yeah it's only been 3 days, but we've never gone more than a day or two not contacting each other in any way since we first met.
d0nnivain Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 You are going to have give him time to process this new / unwelcome info you just dumped on him. I suggest using this free time to find this new BF.
fixing Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 I dont know how long you were both together. But, you obviously told him you have a boyfriend to get a reaction out of him. Well, you got it, he is upset and hurt that you have moved on so quickly from him.... Maybe its far to soon to be friends with eachother? I cant really offer any decent advice or opinions on this as im the opposite, never talk to my ex's again. (to be fair, mine both ended horribly though) Not sure what else i can say, i have no experience being friends with an ex though lol. 1
mammasita Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 I think the bigger problem is why you feel like you need to lie to your ex, I mean "friends"? 2
reddragon588 Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 Hungover on a Thursday? Sounds like a winner.. 1
Zahara Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 Forget the "it's an ex, move on" ****. I've always stayed friends with my ex's with no feelings attached, like they were before the dating. So, why the need to lie that you have a boyfriend. I can think of two reasons 1) you wanted to make him jealous 2) you wanted to see how he would react. Maybe you do have feelings? 1
Volthi10 Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 I honestly don't believe in ex-s being "friends" one or the other will still have feelings and emotions will be involved and one will end up hurt again. My ex and I are splitting after living together a year and I have no interest in being his "friend" I couldn't do it. Sucks that we were really good friends b4 we dated, it's all ruined now.
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