She stopped all contact, what do i do?

[lemondrops]

Perhaps someone can shed some light on this. I have been seeing this girl for about 2 months now and things were going great. She made it clear how much she was into me, how great of a time she had with me, and all the usual "You're too good to be true stuff". Anyway, about a week ago I talk to her and we have a great conversation, she tells me how happy she is and how she can't believe someone so great(me) is in her life. Then thats it, since then she has avoided me, no response to my calls, no response to texts, nothing online, I was debating knocking on her door! All I know is that she has an ex who is really abusive about getting back with her (although she never will) and I heard that she was out and he saw her and started a fight with her and her friend in a bar. She's had a really bad week with drama like that and bad family problems, but i can't figure out what I should do. Any thoughts?

[tattoomytoe]

i would check and make sure she was not dead....since she has an abusive ex.

 

maybe he threatened her or something and she is scared?

[lemondrops]

Well i know she is alive because my buddy saw her out last night, getting yelled at by her ex. He's not physically abusive, just verbally pulling his crap of come back etc. Anyway, I don't understand why if she is so into me, that she would just kick me aside and no matter what i say or do, she ignores me after the last thing she said to me was that she's never been happier! Why would she want to throw that away? I've been thinking that maybe she's just at a stage where she can't have a new guy as long as he's around acting up, but then what do i do if i really like her?

[Pocky]

Contact one of her friend's or a family member and voice your concerns. Let them know you're worried about her and just want to make sure she's okay. Just so they know you're not stalking...