aelvidge Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 My ex broke up with me 7 weeks ago and it was quite a bad break up. He totally ignored me for the first 3 weeks but eventually sent me a simple text. Then I lost my job so not the best month for me. I ended up getting very drunk, saw him with his friends and slept with him what a mistake. Since then he has ignored me since. I feel so down about everything some days I will cry for hours just thinking of everything over and over again. It's got so bad I have had suicidal thoughts. Luckily my friends and family are amazing and always here for me. So I didn't talk to anyone for a week I just completely shut the world of which led my friend to contact my ex asking if he had heard from me. He said no but if she was that worried she should stop by my house so she replied she couldn't as she lives an hour away from me. She text him yesterday saying she thinks he needs to talk to me, that I'm in a bad place and she is worried about me.... No reply. It's just like he doesn't care what I do and I think him shutting me off it making it 10 times worse for me.
nevergoodenough Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 My ex broke up with me 7 weeks ago and it was quite a bad break up. He totally ignored me for the first 3 weeks but eventually sent me a simple text. Then I lost my job so not the best month for me. I ended up getting very drunk, saw him with his friends and slept with him what a mistake. Since then he has ignored me since. I feel so down about everything some days I will cry for hours just thinking of everything over and over again. It's got so bad I have had suicidal thoughts. Luckily my friends and family are amazing and always here for me. So I didn't talk to anyone for a week I just completely shut the world of which led my friend to contact my ex asking if he had heard from me. He said no but if she was that worried she should stop by my house so she replied she couldn't as she lives an hour away from me. She text him yesterday saying she thinks he needs to talk to me, that I'm in a bad place and she is worried about me.... No reply. It's just like he doesn't care what I do and I think him shutting me off it making it 10 times worse for me. I'm guessing that you got your friend to contact him, not a good idea. If he is ignoring you, I think you should leave him be and hope he misses you. That really seems like all you can do. I know you are hurting and I am also. I'm really sorry you are going through this and I know how you feel. You are hurting because he isn't talking to you, but pushing him to talk to you isn't working.
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