lillypolo Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 So last week I met the most incredible guy. We hit it off right away and both got quite excited. texted all the time, and had 2 dates. On the second date I kissed him - this was his first proper kiss (we're both in our 20s). He went a little quiet for a few days then resurfaced to tell me that he had depression, and he felt that he couldn't continue wth us as he he had too much stuff going on with himself at the moment, couldn't put in enough effort. In addition he was still confused about his feelings for an ex, who had asked to "just be friends for now" he felt he didn't have any closure- she's coming back to this area for uni in a months time, so he said he needs to speak to her and get his head sorted/ get some closure on it all. He also said that with me everything was nice, but he just didn't feel a spark - however that could have been because of all the stuff that's troubling his mind at the moment with regards to stress and the ex - he's not sure. We are so so similar its untrue! So perfectly matched. he told me not to wait for him as he don't know when he will be sorted mentally enough to try again, and things might have changed by then - but he says he's so happy to have me in his life and thinks I'm wonderful... So when this sort of things happens... does it mean that we've had our chance and we can never try again? or is it possible further down the line we might be able to? Read more at Right person, wrong time? - Relationships - GirlsAskGuys.com
Philosoraptor Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 Yea, he's not that into you. Sorry. He bailed early and he told you not to wait around, and that even if you did that the feelings may not be there. It was his way of trying to blow you off with as little guilt as possible.
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