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First Phone call since Break up and NC 3 months ago


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Hi guys,

 

So long story short I initiated no contact for over two months and then received a birthday message from my ex who had dumped me prior.

 

I didn't reply for a few days and then we sent a few messages to each other.

a week later I Texted her and we sent a bunch of long messages catching up, nothing has been said about our relationship.

 

We msged two days before i went overseas last week then she sent me a facebook message asking me something about her computer.

 

So i replied when i got home today, We had a couple of messages go through and i said something like "i'm not ready to hang out yet but Would you be interested in catching up over the phone at all" at first she thought it wasn't a good idea (i assume because we always end up getting back together)

 

Then she said she will call me tomorrow on her lunch break.

 

I do love this girl but i know If i chase her it will never work, she needs to realise she has made the wrong choice by herself and come back in her own time (if she ever does)

 

I also sent her a post card from overseas saying something about a secret admirer clearly knowing that she will know it was me, I don't think she has got it yet.

 

So my question is what should i talk about? i don't want to blow it but i want her to come away from the conversation thinking about me.

 

Also one other thing, i noticed her best friend on snap chat is now her ex boyfriend ( she is visiting her parents in christmas which is where he lives) i haven't said anything about it but if anything did ever happen between them i would cut her loose.

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