memo15mx Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 Things were going great with the girl I was dating. Then we hit a downpoint when she started saying that she was confused because some dude she used to date started showing interest again because she and I were getting closer. She stopped seeing me and him because she needed to think what she really wanted. It`s been 3 weeks. She doesn`t stop texting although they are really sporadic. She texts me once every 4 days and so do I. I asked her out but she says she`d feel to pressured knowing that I have feelings for her and that she doesn`t want me to think we can become a couple yet. Truth is, she gave me every single signal in the book that made me believe we would. I asked her to go and walk with me today and she said she had a commitment. I`m trying not to feel despair. One part of me tells me it`s time to say our goodbyes while another really sees she`s one in a million and this just might be a rough patch. But the wait is killing me. I don`t know where I stand. I don`t like this and I feel that I shouldn`t take it since I was very clear where I was going from the start. What would you guys do? You really care about her and you wish to rescue something that was great and could be greater, but I`m failing to see the light at the end. Is there hope? Is it a fool`s hope? Does she not have the guts to tell me it`s over? I mean, isn`t 3 weeks enough time?
mortensorchid Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 I would do this in your situation. Ask for another get together (you said you did once already and she turned it down). CALL her, do not send a text message. If she does not answer, leave a voice mail. If she does not return this message within 24-48 hours, then walk away. You made your efforts, she can contact you if she wants to see you again. I do believe she is telling you that it ain't gonna happen by these actions. If she's done with you, say "Oh well" and move on.
d0nnivain Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 It's too soon to be a rough patch. Once the other guy saw her with somebody new, he wanted her back. You were a rebound to her. Let it go.
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