Author CA20 Posted December 29, 2004 Author Posted December 29, 2004 yeah thats what he told me to send to her if I wanted to send a birthday card! '' send her a box with a dead rabbit and maggots in it'' that would out of left field
whichwayisup Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 Oh gawd! Don't encourage him. He'll say something about throwing a dead maggot filled rabbit at her car or something more appalling. I can't help it, he totally amuses me and personally (sorry everybody!) he makes me laugh! I like his humour and his 'outthere' look on life. Just different that's all. yeah thats what he told me to send to her if I wanted to send a birthday card! '' send her a box with a dead rabbit and maggots in it'' that would out of left field LOL! Could you imagine the look on her face though? Yeah I am sort of sick and twisted! In a good way ofcourse!
Author CA20 Posted December 29, 2004 Author Posted December 29, 2004 yeah knowing her and how haughty and dainty and vain she is, she would probably keel over from it!
tiki Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 I think we should hook up alpha and Mr. Spock.
whichwayisup Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 I think we should hook up alpha and Mr. Spock. Can I be a little fly on the wall to watch?? Just kidding.
ajogokats Posted December 30, 2004 Posted December 30, 2004 We all have those feelings,I do. I know my ex still loves me, does it matter? Yes,because I know it may work out,it may not. Time will tell,I'm struggling with NC, I want to email her,ask her out,I dont think I will,for fear of no. Just let it ride and get on here when you are tempted to contact her,it helps me,and reinforces the NC stand. I dont know your story but it sounds similar to mine,no cheating,just domestic conflict. If it was cheating,on either part,it would be a whole lot harder,stay strong bro,and lean on these people,they know where you're coming from, good luck,AJ.
Author CA20 Posted December 30, 2004 Author Posted December 30, 2004 Thanks, I appreciate your kind words....I am trying hard to stay strong...I doubt it will ever work out, but I have prepared myself for that....so I am now just moving on with my life. If they do, great, but I am not holding my breath
iceisles Posted December 30, 2004 Posted December 30, 2004 Hey kats, great post. Coming on here when you get the urge to call, etc., always helps. What part of KY are you from? I'm 25 and in Frankfort. How long has it been since you and your ex broke up? It's going on 3.5 months for me.
ajogokats Posted December 30, 2004 Posted December 30, 2004 Hey Ice,I'm 43 from Owensboro,we broke up in early Nov,'04,been tuff ever since, Thanks,and....GoKats!
XNemesisX Posted December 30, 2004 Posted December 30, 2004 Hey iceisles - You live where my ex lives now! You are not my ex are you?? It's a small world. I'm in Richmond.
iceisles Posted December 30, 2004 Posted December 30, 2004 Originally posted by YX32Nemesis Hey iceisles - You live where my ex lives now! You are not my ex are you?? It's a small world. I'm in Richmond. I hope I'm not your ex. Lol. Check your PM's - I just wrote you. I'm Dave, by the way.
whichwayisup Posted December 30, 2004 Posted December 30, 2004 I hope I'm not your ex. Lol. Check your PM's - I just wrote you. I'm Dave, by the way. OH man now that would just be too freaky eh? HMMM OK, well let us know?? LOL!
iceisles Posted December 30, 2004 Posted December 30, 2004 Wait, my ex was talking about moving....could she be MY ex? Wouldn't that be something?! Lol.
hit the floor Posted December 31, 2004 Posted December 31, 2004 hey, hang in there.... sometimes when we don't get the answers we think we need it becomes very difficult to move on. one thing that i have learned is to focus on yourself -- when we focus on the other person for validation and happiness we are giving up our control. now this sounds like an easy thing to focus on yourself and not on the ex, but it is a new behaviour and it will take you time to heal and re-focus this might sound strange but try checking out Robert Burney on Google....he has a great outlook on self-growth. trust me it is a total challenge. my husband of 14 years left in July and I still struggle (please do not think you will take this long to heal) please take care and remember life is paradoxical by nature....what one calls the death of a caterpillar, another calls the birth of a butterfly... (figure that out) LOL Hit the ground - LP
GreenCap Posted December 31, 2004 Posted December 31, 2004 I hate today, I hate the holiday season. Suffered a relapse three days ago and feeling like C$#P! I understand kats' comment on self focus etc and not relying on others for own happiness. It is tough after building your life around someone and then having the carpet pulled out under you. I wonder why I suffered the relapse...probably because I know she'll be back in town with her new lover (probably fiance or husband by now) this weekend after frolicking in the throes of love for the past two weeks. Bloody Effing Hell! Why didn't the bloody tsunami sweep them both into the abyss! Sorry, had to vent, I still love her and do not wish ill upon her for if she is gone, then no way she can ever come back to me. This new year thing with people revitalizing and rejuvenating their relationships and here I am in this dark cold room feeling sorry for what could have been and how our future would have looked like.
ajogokats Posted December 31, 2004 Posted December 31, 2004 dont let jealousy kill ya,it will if you let it,stay on here for support. Read some posting by Alpha male,he makes a helluva lotta sense to me and it helped. Dont give in...you can do it. AJ.
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