captncrunch Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 I am in my 20's, went on a few dates with a guy from college about 6 months ago. The dates went well, he was very polite but we definitely clicked. When summer rolled around, we each went our separate ways - I went home and he traveled. We texted for a bit but then lost touch. Coming back in the fall, I meant to reach out but was overloaded on work and he didn't contact me either. (Though from the last time we talked, he sent the last text so maybe ball was in my court to respond? Idk if this is silly logic.) Now that I'm in a better place to date, I've been thinking of contacting him again. But it has also been 6 months. What would be your reaction in this situation? Do I keep it casual and just say hi or get to the point and ask to meet up?
Versacehottie Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 Yes definitely reach out. You have nothing to lose and a lot to gain. I don't see why you couldn't ask to meet up within a couple of texts, ie you could ask within the first texting conversation rather than the very first text. That way if he is upset and now dating someone it will probably come up in the first few texts between you two or if he doesn't respond at all.
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