truckingtaz Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 Hello everyone. I wanted to thank the people that helped me out. Everything is going ok. I just have alittle problem. My fiance ex calls her when we were haveing our problems they would talk and he would make her laugh and feel better. I would like to know if I am making a big deal out of this. I feel that he shouldn't be calling. I trust her but not him. I don't know if i should say anything or just let it go i also don't know if he is calling alot or not. thank you for any help or input in can give.
Pocky Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 I would discuss this with your girlfriend. Explain to her that while you don't distrust her you feel uncomfortable about their contact and you would like to discuss this instead of keeping it inside and allowing it to cause problems. Have her explain why she continues to remain in contact with him and what she gains from the relationship. Ask her if she feels it inappropriate if while the two of you were having problems that you called and ex-lover for comfort instead of working with her to solve the problem.
alphamale Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 Originally posted by Pocky I would discuss this with your girlfriend. Explain to her that while you don't distrust her you feel uncomfortable about their contact and you would like to discuss this instead of keeping it inside and allowing it to cause problems. Have her explain why she continues to remain in contact with him and what she gains from the relationship. Ask her if she feels it inappropriate if while the two of you were having problems that you called and ex-lover for comfort instead of working with her to solve the problem. The above is stupid advice I feel. What good is talking bout it gonna do? Explain to her... Have her explain.... Ask her if she feels.... What a load of bull-krap. Here is my advice....start calling one of you ex-girlfriends or some other woman, maybe a co-worker, when you and fiance have problems. Give your fiance a taste of her own medicine and see how SHE FEELS when you do the same as she does. I'll bet that those calls from her ex will become less and less frequent.
Pocky Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 Oh, my apologies! I didn't realize I was giving advice to a five year old.
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