hooked up with Ex..now what?

[LilySun]

He and I dated briefly 10 yrs ago. We were much less mature then and different stages in life, etc so it didn't work out but we somewhat remained friends over the years. He went on to get married and have kids but is divorced now.

 

So we have been in touch lately, texting eachother here and there mostly. We had lunch oneday several months ago. I didn't feel attracted to him at that point.

 

But suddenly that has changed. Ran into him last night, so we hung out for awhile and I was feeling very attracted. I guess he was too....next thing I know we are making out and in his bed. He is a sweet, loving guy and I care about him as a friend already.Neither of us have had sex in a long time so perhaps it was just convenient for both of us. But it was also very intimate and sweet. Followed by cuddling me all night long.

So the morning was a bit awkward for me, because I have feelings for him now.

 

I told him it was fun and we should do it again sometime. He was receptive to that, but I don't where to go from here. He is having stressful issues with his Ex wife, raising 2 kids and I'm sure he doesn't want alot of pressure.But now I can't stop thinking about him, and how I shouldn't have let him go years ago...what do I do?

[mikecr50]

Try to be patient, don't ask what it meant-at least not yet! If you want to start over go slow you'll see real fast if he just wants a fwb. Wait and see if he contacts you for a few days. Good luck!

[LilySun]

Part of me wishes that I just kissed him goodnight instead of going all the way but I think it was just.easy to do because it isn't like we are strangers. I hope he doesn't lose interest now

[mikecr50]

I hope not either! Not a fan of sex without feelings on both sides but what do I know I'm a guy and I've been used :-)

[NTRDR]

Just feel it out, enjoy each others company and leave it at that. Don't talk about the emotional stuff too soon.