cmac82 Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 Hi, I'm a 22 years old single girl and I'm kinda dumb when it comes to flirting, so I need some advice here.. there's this guy at work whom I've known since my internship a year ago. I always thought he was incredibly hot but he's married, so I always considered him off-limits. Thing is he's been acting incredibly nice to me for the past month, and I didn't see anything odd in it, I thought he was just being friendly. So today we were alone for a while and he asks me what am I doing when I get off work, and I say nothing, I'm going home.. then he asks me if I've ever been with a married guy, and I'm like yeah once, for 2 or 3 days.. so we got to talking about cheating and that he cheated once on his wife, blahblahblah, so he's like you should be with a married guy.. and I'm like yeah well who knows.. then he asks me if I'm interested in anyone from the office, and I'm like I don't know, there's someone but I don't know about that (meaning him), and he asks me if I like his friend (who's married too) and I'm like NO WAY, and then he asks me again if I like someone from the office and I reply the same thing. So then he asks me if I trust my mom with personal stuff and I'm like yeah sometimes, we talk a lot, and then he asks me if I trust anyone from the office, and that if I would tell them "about it" (god knows what "it" is), and I'm like I don't know anybody here well enough to trust them with intimate stuff.. and he asks me this 2 more times and now I'm wondering where is he trying to get with all this, so then he tells me you know what I'm gonna ask you next.. and in walks another girl from the office and obviously we had to change the topic. Is he hitting on me?? First of all I'm not looking for anything serious, I think it would be fun to just go out with him every once in a while. But I keep wondering if he was asking because of his friend, trying to do a little matchmaking, or if he was asking because HE is interested? Any thoughts? Thanks in advance!
tattoomytoe Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 he wants you to f*ck him. open your eyes. guys do not care about there best boys sex life....they are only concerned with their own.
Teag Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 He wants you but do you really want to get involved with a married man? You say you don't want anything serious BUT once you start seeing him can you garantee you WON"T fall in love with him?? Obviously he's a dirtbag if he's cheated on his wife & wanting to do it again. I would think hard about that b/c a few weeks/months when your head over heals for him & he won't leave his wife, then what do you do. I would encourage you to read some of the other post from the OW to see how much pain they are going through. Good Luck
tattoomytoe Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 it's not Cmac82's fault she is a sexy thang! if you want the guy too, go for it, i would ask if he had any diseases though.
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