ByMyself01 Posted November 24, 2013 Posted November 24, 2013 People always believe that just because a person is married, have kids with someone, or been with someone for many years, that they will stay or go back to the person no matter what even if they find someone new. Yes, in my situation, my ex did go back to the woman he has a child with and has been with for 5 years. If that is the case, why are divorce rates so high, why do most kids come from broken homes, and why are so many people on this board who have been in long-term relationships worried about if their ex will come back. I just want to know your opinion on this. Do you think it is guaranteed that a person will stay in a marriage even though they stepped out of it, do you think a person will stay with someone for a child, and do you really think because a person has been with someone for years, that they will never move on? In other words, many people believe that marriage, kids, and longevity guarantees an eternal relationship. Yes, the way it should be, but is it common? If this is true, then I will try to avoid men who have ever been in a long-term relationship and has kids. I don't do the married men.
planb1973 Posted November 24, 2013 Posted November 24, 2013 I have been in three long term relationships and had a child in one of them. I can honestly say I would never go back to any of them. My sons mom is the only one that I even talk to and that is only because we have a job to do which is raising a healthy child it does not go anywhere past that and we actually get along just fine, but we would never get back together. YUCK! The type of person who would leave you for an ex is also the type who would leave you for someone else, or just simply cheat. And the married ones well they are cheaters and will on you. Keep in mind also that being with someone who has been in a long term relationship has most likely learned a lot about relationships and know what they want and how to give what is needed so don't count them out. Better than being with someone who has never experienced love and may not know what it is. 1
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