hannahsmith Posted November 24, 2013 Posted November 24, 2013 I met him in a club and it was going to be a one night stand but my friend was staying over. He added me on facebook and I asked him to go for a drink. The date went well and I texted him for a week. I asked him to go for a drink but he said he couldn't but I could come round to watch a film. Then we had sex after our second date. I went round to his to watch a film and we had sex. I knew it was going to happen but I don't really care (I wanted it too). The day after he text me a bit and I asked when he was free. He said he was busy for the next few weeks (he told me he was busy before I went round and that was the only day he could do because of uni). Was it just sex, like a delayed one night stand, or should I text him again? I haven't text him back and it's been 4 days. My friends have mixed reactions 2 said it was just sex, 1 said he might genuinely be busy.
veggirl Posted November 24, 2013 Posted November 24, 2013 No one is too busy for someone they are interested in. Don't text him. You were just sex to him, thats why he couldn't even be bothered to meet you out but rather just had you COME TO HIM for sex.
Eggplant Posted November 24, 2013 Posted November 24, 2013 It was a ONS. The phase where he wanted sex lasted a few days. 1
CarrieT Posted November 24, 2013 Posted November 24, 2013 I asked him to go for a drink but he said he couldn't but I could come round to watch a film. Then we had sex after our second date. That was a never a date, it was a booty call. It was just sex and you were used. 1
Author hannahsmith Posted December 2, 2013 Author Posted December 2, 2013 Yeh I think it was, but why dress it up as something it wasn't going to be i.e. with the date, texting and cuddling. Is it normal to cuddle after a ons? Only one of my friends has had a ons too (which was like mine really) so I don't really know how it works, but at least I'll be more aware.
d0nnivain Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 It was a polite ONS. You said you knew it was going to happen. Don't beat yourself up over it. You weren't used because you went into this with your eyes wide open.
veggirl Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 Cuddling means nothing. A lot of people LOVE cuddling, it feels good! Personally I can't cuddle with someone I'm not very comfortable with, but sometimes I think I'm in the minority there.
StanMusial Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 Sometimes these scenarios posted on here seem to repeat almost verbatim. 2
Emilia Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 Yeh I think it was, but why dress it up as something it wasn't going to be i.e. with the date, texting and cuddling. Is it normal to cuddle after a ons? Only one of my friends has had a ons too (which was like mine really) so I don't really know how it works, but at least I'll be more aware. Affection is polite after casual sex.
Author hannahsmith Posted December 2, 2013 Author Posted December 2, 2013 Sometimes these scenarios posted on here seem to repeat almost verbatim. haha people hope it's different, we are all delusional lol
StanMusial Posted December 2, 2013 Posted December 2, 2013 haha people hope it's different, we are all delusional lol True that.
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