ABrokenNerd Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 As the thread title says, its my exs big birthday party today. I was invited but didn't go mainly because I have work and also she invited her new boyfriend as well. I didn't respond to the invite or rsvp after I started true NC, but Im struggling to cope with the reasons why she invited me and her new boyfriend, when she knows that I still have feelings for her. She is probably introducing him to her family right now, and I know logically that it doesn't concern me anymore but deep down it still hurts you know? So I wad wondering if anyone had advice or any opinions on the matter. Any of such would be greatly appreciated.
JoelBarish Posted November 24, 2013 Posted November 24, 2013 Who can say why she invited you? Maybe to mess with your head. Maybe so she can tell herself she's being a good person... If you are in NC then you must still be in pain. Keep your NC. I know it hurts to not be included in her life but that was her choice and it's not your job to go around celebrating her milestones anymore. Value yourself and remember that it's not about you missing out on being part of her life, it is her who is missing out on being part of yours.
acidios Posted November 24, 2013 Posted November 24, 2013 well JoelBarish wrote the right words, it is her who is missing out on being part of yours. she doesnt want to lose you from the circle.think your self,she got a new BF you dont need her as a friend end of story bro. move on,be strong,it hurts i know but thats why is good to cut all communication for reasons like yours heck she even maybe think you for a rebound option.dont care anymore about her and her life move on and keep focus on NC.
d0nnivain Posted November 24, 2013 Posted November 24, 2013 You did the right thing. She probably invited you to be nice in attempt to prove that she wants to be friends. Chalk it up to her not being a jerk / bad person & let it go.
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