OLD: Guys/girls who don't respond with questions

[SoonMyFriend]

Just wanted to come in and rant... it drives me nuts when people you're chatting with don't help the conversation along by asking questions in return!

 

It's happened a few times this week with me, where I've been asking all the questions and just getting one line answers in return.

 

If these guys are so uninterested why even bother messaging me back?

 

I usually just give up messaging them.

 

OLD is so frustrating sometimes.

 

Thoughts LS?? Have you ever done this to try and get someone to move on? Or how do you keep the conversation going? Or do you just give up?

[Mascara]

Are these guys where you made the first contact?

[Janni]

Just wanted to come in and rant... it drives me nuts when people you're chatting with don't help the conversation along by asking questions in return!

 

It's happened a few times this week with me, where I've been asking all the questions and just getting one line answers in return.

 

If these guys are so uninterested why even bother messaging me back?

 

I usually just give up messaging them.

 

OLD is so frustrating sometimes.

 

Thoughts LS?? Have you ever done this to try and get someone to move on? Or how do you keep the conversation going? Or do you just give up?

 

When I don't ask back and only answer the questions it's because I am unsure if I want anything with the person at all. I want to see if they really are interested and I want to kinda get to know then, but I am actually not really interested. Just "afraid" of passing up an opportunity. So unless you're really into the guy, just give up.

[SoonMyFriend]

Are these guys where you made the first contact?

 

This week one contacted me first, the second guy I contacted first.

 

I understand why a guy I contact first would do it, but why if they're contacting me first?

[Mascara]

Probably carpet bombed a load of profiles. Lots of guys do that, they only start properly selecting through them once they get replies in.