ks0985 Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 Ask a girl who used to have a big crush on me if her friend is single?? What's the etiquette on that? 1
d0nnivain Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 Not really. It's like kicking her when she's down. If the friend has any class she won't date you after you hurt her friend 1
Kizza Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 Ask a girl who used to have a big crush on me if her friend is single?? What's the etiquette on that? No, it is insensitive. Find out using other means but don't expect to get lucky there because if her friend is decent she won't go there. 3
Author ks0985 Posted November 23, 2013 Author Posted November 23, 2013 Nothing ever happened between me and her tho I never led her on or anything? If by hurt you mean I told her I just wanted to be friends then I guess I understand
Kizza Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 Nothing ever happened between me and her tho I never led her on or anything? If by hurt you mean I told her I just wanted to be friends then I guess I understand dude! she had feelings for you which you are aware of...asking her if her friend is single is a kick in the teeth. It's cruel! 1
Versacehottie Posted November 24, 2013 Posted November 24, 2013 Bear in mind I give this advice to help the girls involved in this story...no don't! This is beyond an etiquette issue. What you do in this scenario is a reflection of your own character and levels of sensitivity and selfishness. Go about finding out the friend's availability by some other means; however, when you do find out, what do you propose to do with that information? If she is single, to act on it is also cruel assuming any part of the crush still exists. Surely if you are such a huge crush-worthy catch, you can find some other girl besides these two to date. Whole thing is messy and shady. 1
d0nnivain Posted November 24, 2013 Posted November 24, 2013 Nothing ever happened between me and her tho I never led her on or anything? If by hurt you mean I told her I just wanted to be friends then I guess I understand It doesn't matter. The friend "saw you first". Therefore to the girl you like, you should be off limits. Not all women are as strict about that as I am so the friend may still date you but please don't make it so the woman you don't like gets any more hurt in the process.
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