mjack Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 Hi all, Ive been chattin to this girl ive known for a few weeks now and got quite close just before we went home for uni xmas holidays. Been txt'ing each other everyday but im confused as she keeps mentioning her ex boyfriend in her messages. For instance one message was along the lines of "Im sad, ex is being mean....", so i asked her why she still keeps in touch with him if she doesnt like him. She replied with sumthing like "I know but he said hes changed, hes nice now, and i believed him....." Now wtf is she trying to tell me?? Maybe she is just trying to make me jealous? Not sure though, what are your thoughts?
alphamale Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 Originally posted by mjack Now wtf is she trying to tell me?? Maybe she is just trying to make me jealous? Not sure though, what are your thoughts? she is telling you that she will be returning to her ex when the time is right and that you two are friends only.
Clancy Posted December 29, 2004 Posted December 29, 2004 Send her one more text message. "I like u. A lot. When not still f***'d up re: X , Call me. "
Author mjack Posted December 29, 2004 Author Posted December 29, 2004 Took ur advice and asked her straight if she still likes her ex and if she is thinkin of gettin back with him etc.. Gud news is she said that im right shes going to tell him that she doesnt want anything to do with him.
Puma Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 ur not right..she still likes him even if shes tellin ya otherwise. dont give in to that
Mr Spock Posted January 2, 2005 Posted January 2, 2005 I don't think the building blocks of good relationships include lots of text messaging......
JoL Posted January 3, 2005 Posted January 3, 2005 She likes her ex, no matter what she says. Run..run now.
XNemesisX Posted January 4, 2005 Posted January 4, 2005 she is telling you that she will be returning to her ex when the time is right and that you two are friends only. Ditto! Sorry man, she has just officially lumped you into the dreaded "friend" category! People don't rant and rave about their exes to someone they are genuinely interested in. I don't care what she says, her heart is with the ex. Cross her off.
ziggue Posted January 4, 2005 Posted January 4, 2005 She still has feelings for him no matter what she says. Agree with that. She's just in denial about it. I am sorry to say that I think she just wants you to hang around if things don't work out with him. Leave now before you get yourself hurt.
Author mjack Posted January 4, 2005 Author Posted January 4, 2005 Thanks for your honest answers. Ill take your advice
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