Treasa Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 Shooting fish in a barrel is an expression that means that something is really easy. He's hardly doing anything, and you want to keep being with him. Look at how many times you've posted about him. Either he's doing shady things, or you have insecurity issues. Either way, I think now is a good time to start going out and finding yourself, having fun on your own, etc. You're clinging. You have things you could be working on that will help you in all aspects of your life. Starting with being happy independently. If I had a boyfriend who was like that, and ignored me, I wouldn't be with him anymore.
Greenberet Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 I can't speak for him, but I moved in with my current girlfriend lickety split! Part of the reason was she needed a roommate when her friend bailed on the rent.
twinkie0 Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 When I read the title I immediately thought you meant a friend of the opposite sex. I see absolutely nothing wrong with this. If his best friend was an attractive, or even halfway decent-looking girl, then you should feel like that. If you really love him and see a future with him, the best advice I can give you is this: get real used to his best friend. A man's best friend is in some way kinda like a second wife haha I know it sounds weird, but it really is someone he needs in his life, and that's something you should be glad about. It's a different type of relationship, a role you will never be able to fullfil, that's what best friends are for. Don't get paranoid and be glad for him, seriously
hotpotato Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 I dont see the big deal about not moving in. Not everyone wants to 'shack up' before marriage. You guys are not married, and he doesn't have to live with you. Let's face it, friendships are more stable than relationships. You two are not engaged to be married or married. You guys have only been together a year and a half. Maybe he understandably does not want to mesh his life with yours right now. If you want one on one time with him, go out. Just the two of you. Living together isn't always proof of commitment. I've seen personally people who lived together for X years. They break up then immediately one person gets married...to someone else... Even on LS there are the sob stories of "I've been living with my bf for X years, but he wont marry me! :(" Well, uh, of course, he hasnt...He gains absolutely nothing but potential legal problems if he marries you at this point.
Author tme0 Posted November 24, 2013 Author Posted November 24, 2013 Well, exactly what I was afraid was going to happen, happened. No sex. No kissing. Hardly said a thing to me unless I talk first. Just busy talking about video games with his friends. Hopefully this is just for a couple days because it's "soooooo exciting! !!" But I'm leaving. I'm going to hang out with my friends, I'm not going to sit here on the couch while they have their never ending bro time. 1
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