TigerLilly78 Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 Ok so im not even sure if this is the right place to put this since my situation isn't a true relationship in the traditionalist sense of the word. Ok here is the deal I play a MMORPG with my friends on line. Im introduced to dude great we hit it off we even end up partnered in the game cool its all rp right? What harm can it be well yeah I went into it refusing to allow myself to care and holding stead fast its a game in that aspect. Fast froward few months later things seam ok. Now were the prob lies is were dose a relationship like this go and how dose it all pan out? Dude has made hints in the past but yet still keeps things pretty much in game seams like on his end there is something there yet I don't know if its friendship or more at this point or rp or what. So part of me is like ok time to log off that game and run for the hills before I allow myself to get to invested. But part of me kind of likes it I just don't know hope any of this makes sense.
d0nnivain Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 Are you two talking outside of the game? Start there. Is it possible for you to meet IRL? If the talking goes well, arrange a time / place to hang out.
Author TigerLilly78 Posted November 23, 2013 Author Posted November 23, 2013 Are you two talking outside of the game? Start there. Is it possible for you to meet IRL? If the talking goes well, arrange a time / place to hang out. Thanks for the reply well we chat on fb here and there if that counts. Its quite long distance at the moment so hanging out would be kinda hard. Tho its been brought up in the past by me and made for an awkward moment. Guess why im kinda confused is this person seams to blow hot and cold and I don't know what direction to try and take things if any.
d0nnivain Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 Some people don't want to get involved in an LDR. If it's geographically impossible for you to get together, he may be blowing hot & cold because he likes you too but is unwilling to deal with the distance. Depending on your ages & economic situations, distance can be over come but it's a real p.i.t.a.
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