buzzie2 Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 In the early stages of dating and getting to know someone; how do you keep the attraction strong without causing him to lose interest? What are some things I could be doing that will make him wishing and wondering about me instead of the other way around?
lifeunderground Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 Don't hit him up all the time Let him come to YOU guys are proven to want what they can't have
mishy Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 simple- never act interested and never show you have feelings be unavailable and busy 1
melell Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 If you aren't into playing hard to get (why want a guy that only likes you when he can't have you?), then I just say keep up the conversation but be interesting and aloof.
MrCastle Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 Can't give my answer unless this thread gets moved to the sex section. 1
Keenly Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 Keep the relationship drama free. Don't play games. Don't "test". Don't ask trap questions. Cant control the feelings and actions of another person though.
Leigh 87 Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 Just be yourself. If you are the type who over texts or over calls, some guys will get turned off, even if they are otherwise really into you. Be yourself, and the right guy will fall head over heels for you. If you are honestly not the most fun, interesting or adventerous woman, no worries, just find common interests and have various differet things in life that you can have a conversation about. Be interested in other people and their lives, their hobbies and their family and friends. Ask them about things. You can improve yourself to some extent but, ultimately, you cannot plan what to do or what to say to a T. You have to basically be yourself. 1
todreaminblue Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 i am easy to date....nto demanding and i can have fun with a cheese grater or a garlic press....kidding ...it helps to be easily entertained...tree bark is cool.......i am adventurous so getting caught in a thunderstorm is fun......i dont care if my hair gets messy and i share food if i fall over in a mud puddle it wotn ruin my day....... itry to be good company with conversations that make them smile.......the guy i am seeing i can tell he doesn't smile much so i make it my personal goal to make him and i did he now calls me hun i think i prefer deborah cuz i aint that sweet....maybe he is relaxing a little he is a leeedle reserved....changing that...gonna make him laugh...yay for deb......deb 1
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