Should I break up with her? I might regret it

[Am4Real]

Ahhhh....yes, there is someone else and if it's not a relationship (yet) it will be once she musters up the courage to break it off with you or she treats you differently until you do the dirty work.

 

From your description she is giving off all the signs of having a heart in place somewhere different than with you...I'm sorry.

 

There is no way for you to be sure...beleive me on that one...you are not with her every minute of the day and she was in another country, travelling, who knows who she met or was introduced to.

 

Best thing for you to do is bring up your concerns in a calm and rationale manner. Do not accuse her or anything....tell her what you know. What you know is that the relationship is different. Explain why you think that. Let her talk to you...don't go on and on telling her how you feel, simply state a sentence or two then let her respond to you.

[ConfuseGuy]

Hello thanks for the response but if you read my post above it's over now.

 

I didn't accuse her of anything. I simply let her speak and listen to what she have to say.

 

I just agreed to whatever she wants to happen and didn't argue.. She also told me there is no other guy and don't ever think that.

 

Anyway it is what is it. Even though it deeply hurts we need to accept that fact that is over now..

 

 

Ahhhh....yes, there is someone else and if it's not a relationship (yet) it will be once she musters up the courage to break it off with you or she treats you differently until you do the dirty work.

 

From your description she is giving off all the signs of having a heart in place somewhere different than with you...I'm sorry.

 

There is no way for you to be sure...beleive me on that one...you are not with her every minute of the day and she was in another country, travelling, who knows who she met or was introduced to.

 

Best thing for you to do is bring up your concerns in a calm and rationale manner. Do not accuse her or anything....tell her what you know. What you know is that the relationship is different. Explain why you think that. Let her talk to you...don't go on and on telling her how you feel, simply state a sentence or two then let her respond to you.

[fixing]

Sorry to hear about that Sounds like, she either fell out of love with you, or she met someone else. I know its very painful for you. You got to stick to no contact now. Dont ever call her again. She made her choice. You will find a woman who will be perfect. But for now, no contact and move on.

[Am4Real]

Got it -- thanks!

 

I didn't read all the posts (sorry) was responding to your "original".

 

Sorry for the loss...hang in there.

 

 

 

 

Hello thanks for the response but if you read my post above it's over now.

 

I didn't accuse her of anything. I simply let her speak and listen to what she have to say.

 

I just agreed to whatever she wants to happen and didn't argue.. She also told me there is no other guy and don't ever think that.

 

Anyway it is what is it. Even though it deeply hurts we need to accept that fact that is over now..

[Kizza]

Sorry to hear about the outcome, all the best to you and I hope you find someone who has her whole heart committed to you in the future... good luck with NC, it is really tough but it gets easier.