Bishop556 Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 (edited) So my girlfriend I recently broke due to her believing that the relationship is unhealthy. I recently messaged her actually thanking her for breaking up with me as I needed the motivation to change myself into someone I wished to be. She called me soon after and told me that she still has feelings for me, but she is happy that I could admit that and that she has a lot of respect for me. I even made her laugh, and she wishes to go on a bus ride with me back to my university (we both are using the same bus to get home). She said she is single and she has had this guy that she fancies, but does not wish to get into a relationship with. I told her that I knew she had feelings for him and wanted to have sex with him. She said yes, but she is doubting whether she should even do so due to both of them being emotional wrecks (he experienced a recent break up) and that she knows the sex would only mask feelings of me in her head while making her feel worse. We left off on good terms. Should I be worried of what she does by herself, or should I trust her, focus on myself, and move on improving myself in the process? Knowing from her personally, she wouldn't have sex with me until she loved me as she was hurt before, so I believe she would like to due to hormones, I don't think she has it in her to do so unless she is fully committed to the person. Edited November 23, 2013 by Bishop556
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