greenlantern Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 (edited) I feel used. My boyfriend and his last ex broke up but continued talking for a few months after. They had been together for about a month and it was long distance. Three months after, he also spent Christmas together with her family. Four months after breaking up, he decided that he never wanted to get back together with her again. I feel used and like I was a backup. I heard from my friends that my boyfriend had been asking about me just about a month after breaking up. Also, he was trying to get to know me better and hang out with me even before Christmas. Am I right to feel like he used me to get over her, feel better about himself, as a rebound, and when it didn't work out with her, he decided to move on to me? This is the same ex that my boyfriend had to get closure with. After he told me he loved me and wanted to marry, and we went on a few dates, he broke it off to say that he needed to get closure with his ex, and when he did that, then we could be together. Edit: As you can tell from my other posts on this forum, I really have been a lot of trouble with feeling insecure in this relationship :-/ Edited November 23, 2013 by greenlantern
Uwaae Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 You need to work on your own insecurities before you get into realtionships
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