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How do I "get out of my head" about relationships?


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Hey everyone. I'm having a hard time letting go of a mild obsession with my lack of a romantic relationship. I just can't stop thinking about and analyzing everything in my life that even remotely relates to a relationship or lack there of. I ended a tumultuous pseudo-relationship this summer that has really done a number on me. I didn't realize how much it has affected me until recently. I am currently dating a new guy (I have posted about him) but we aren't matched well and I don't see it really going anywhere. Probably won't see each other for much longer.

 

How do I stop thinking about all of these things? I feel like such a failure because I'm alone and don't seem to have the ability to make good decisions or see things for what they are without putting myself through horrible situations first. What is wrong with me? I hope this is a phase. I am so tired of feeling like a loser. I haven't been able to let it all go.

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You give yourself other stuff to think about.

 

What are you doing for fun for you? If the answer is nothing, find something to do that you enjoy. Focus on that rather than your relationship status.

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