OCCDAVE Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 Well this is my first date I'd say in about 8 months so I was beyond nervous.Lunch went smooth and talking seemed about 50 50 .I even joked with her saying someone's a bit to silent she giggled and said ya I know .I asked her if she has ever been to this art exibit she said no so I said cool will check it out which she agreed .I then felt Akward I hadn't put the money in my bank so she saw my wallet she said oh geez is that all the stripper tips hehe.I said yep tbh I was dancing just outside this place few mins before you came (she giggled) Well outing came to a close and we said we would hang out next week.I didn't wanna come off as needy so I said will see next week mày be hectic .We hugged and went on our way .So let's see what happens Btw is that a good rule to plan a different type for 2nd date instead of just lunch/dinner
Kizza Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 definitely, just lunch/dinner is boring and too much pressure. Do an activity or go see something where you can interact with one-another more. 1
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 23, 2013 Author Posted November 23, 2013 That's what I was thinking which is why I suggested the art exibit .Ill may shoot her a text about Monday I dunno feel like im new to the dating game since I was Mia for so long .One thing I do know I'm going out today and I still plan on talking to other girls .Ive learned don't put all your eggs in one basket lol 1
Kizza Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 Smart, good to remain open until you are committed. 1
Uwaae Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 I dont think it matters, just depend on what you wanna do. The most important thing to do is to have fun, and play with her a little bit
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 30, 2013 Author Posted November 30, 2013 Well today makes a week since we hung out and not a word .I sent a thanksgiving text yesterday still nothing .So pretty much case closed ? Sigh
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 30, 2013 Author Posted November 30, 2013 Met her at my work few weeks back and we did lunch last Friday .It seemed good and she agreed to hang this week so I thought it was a good sign .Ive been crazy busy this week but I figured I get a reply to my thanksgiving text .Shes pretty busy like week she went Mia all week then Friday text me saying we still on for lunch .Just for heck of it I called now no answer so I did what I can balls In her court :-/
Author OCCDAVE Posted November 30, 2013 Author Posted November 30, 2013 Yep I feel even at my age I still have a lot to learn lol.Way I see it as you said take it with a grain of salt .sigh owell keep on trying thanks
Mascara Posted November 30, 2013 Posted November 30, 2013 I didn't wanna come off as needy so I said will see next week mày be hectic This, plus the fact that you didn't text for a week, would put me right off. Why on earth did you do that? It doesn't matter how busy you are, you have time to shoot a few texts.... and deliberately not doing so because you didn't want to "seem needy" is just game playing. And we know when you're doing that. 1
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