krista28 Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 Okay so i hooked up with a guy from work...bad nmistake. actually we went out a couple of times. but he was an *** afterwards. we agreed bot to tell anyone about it but i told my best friend cuz i was so hurt he wouldn't talk to me. she then threatened him...he wouldn't talk to either of us. then word got put in the kitchen at work what happened ...and he called me a basketcase and fing nuts to another girl at work. I work on another floor serving food once in awhile ..and i have to see the kitchen from Time to time. i am nervous 24 /7 about it...my shift is tomorrow night at 5. Constamt nerves....how do i not worry am i overreacting? i am so nervous that i cant even sleep...i have to go there tomorrow....and i feel like crazy/slutty and nervous.
madjac74 Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 I don't understand why you can't just ignore him and do your job. You admit you made a mistake "hooking up" with him, he called you a basket case....what am I missing besides you are 2 dumb kids?
MidwestUSA Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 It sounds like you're in food service. Since you've been such a wreck about this, why not just quit and go to work elsewhere? It certainly seems like the easier route. 1
Zahara Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 what am I missing besides you are 2 dumb kids? She's 30. And he's 40.
madjac74 Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 A) How do you know? B) How does that change anything?
MidwestUSA Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 A) How do you know? B) How does that change anything? Prior history, 15 or so threads on the same topic. Nothing's changed! 1
madjac74 Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 Prior history, 15 or so threads on the same topic. Nothing's changed! Ok sorry. By the spelling and grammar (subject line) I would have thought they were in junior high
Gottabestrong Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 am i overreacting? Absolutely. It is no big deal. Get some perspective on the situation. You don't even work together or have to see him every day. Stop driving yourself crazy over this!
clia Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 Given your posting history, you seem unhealthily obsessed with this guy. I think your solution is to find a new job.
Dark_history Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 If you can't switch jobs, contact HR on this. And at the same time, get your resume updated in case this becomes too big of a problem to be diffused by HR.
todreaminblue Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 you need to kill him. way to go phantom ........lol......im dobbing on you...kidding.......if she kills him though you are an accessory before the fact..she should make him dog food meat loaf instead as a thank you for the basket case comment..make friends....with pal meatloaf...deb
MidwestUSA Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 you need to kill him. Someone's a little cheeky on a Friday afternoon, LOL! 1
Author krista28 Posted November 22, 2013 Author Posted November 22, 2013 Thanks everyone i.am not obsessed with this guy...just torturing myself about the situation . i feel whoreish. slutty ashamed . Even tho i did like the guy. andvwed known eachother from work for awhilr. scared of what ppl are gonna think mostly . i know there's no shame in sex but I'm ashamed .
Author krista28 Posted November 22, 2013 Author Posted November 22, 2013 I don't want to quit i don't think itl come to that but. ...
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