alex007 Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 I was at one of my best friends houses when he wanted to go get coffee. There is only one shop close to his house and that is where my x works. I truley didnt know she would be working right then we just went through the drivethrough. She was working up frount while someone else was working the drivethrough but then I see after I ordered... her friend must have said something because befpre I got my coffee she peaked around the corner to look at me. Two hours later I see I have a text from her after we have both been no contact for 3 weeks saying this " I'm sure you were just coming to get drinks like anywhere else but it makes me a little uncomfortable having you come to me store. I've been told before that you've come on by coworkers but tonight I actually saw you. I'm not At all trying to cause an issue, rather just ask that you be understanding of this and can rectify the situation by possibly just choosing another Starbucks." I am not going to respond but what are your opinions on why she would even text me any of that in the first place?
Confusedguy81 Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 go wherever you want if it doesn't make you uncomfortable. Who gives a hoot about your exes comfort level. It sounds like she is trying to hurt you. Don't take that bait. 2
Jmk21 Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 Welllllll. You have free reign to go wherever you want. BUT if your going out of your way to get Starbucks alot. Get it from somewhere else. I've been avoiding my ex like the plague honestly. When I go out half the time I always drive to another city where most of my friends are so I don't have to worry about "bumping" into her and her new BF. and potentially punch him in the face 1
Chi townD Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 Go to another coffee shop, you just gave her an ego boost. She's thinking, "poor sap can't get over me NOW he's coming to my work! That's a bit creepy and stalkerish."
headinthecloud Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 She lost the right to have a say in your life the day she BU with you. You're a customer, you're not stalking her. Ignore the text. 1
cavalier99 Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 Tell her to f*ck off and to stop haraassing you!!! 2
MoooOinkBaaa Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 lmao yeah she's the one who's harassing!
Author alex007 Posted November 23, 2013 Author Posted November 23, 2013 Yeah I just dont get the point in her texting me that when she is the on who broke up with me... after I treated her great by the way. And she went out of her way to peak around the corner to see me... also admited before to stalking my imstagram... haha. Seems like she just wnted a reason to contact in hopes id say something.
miraclesdohappen Posted November 23, 2013 Posted November 23, 2013 She is probably hurting and wants time to get over you before she sees you. Just because she broke up with you doesn't mean she doesn't still have feelings for you. Sometimes we like people who aren't right for us. Just respect her and go somewhere else. You will both get over each other quicker if you don't have any contact. 1
Jmk21 Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 To be fair nobody is "right" for anybody. If humans were supposed to be monogamous with ONE partner we wouldn't have invented the union of marriage. We would just be with that one person the rest of our lives because that's how would be then and "marriage" would be non existent
fixing Posted November 25, 2013 Posted November 25, 2013 Sounds like she may have gotten irritated that you were so close, yet you made no attempt at 'trying' to bump into her. Ignore the text completely, and like another poster said, go wherever you want as long as YOUR comfortable. But, if its Starbucks coffee you love daily, then probably best to go to another place just for now, but only because you're making that decision, not because of her demands. 2
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