ShiningMoon Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 (edited) There is this man on campus who checks I.Ds whenever someone wants to enter a certain building. I usually have to enter this building several times a day and whenever he sees me, he literally turns his head or just leaves and asks someone else to check my I.D. He's been doing this since I started going to this school. He never wants to check my I.D nor does he ever look at me. If I try to look at him to show him my I.D he looks away. He always makes sure there's no eye contact between us. I'm the only one he does this to. He's absolutely fine with people entering before or after me. However, with me it's a completely different story. He always tries to avoid any sort of contact with me. Same yesterday, he was talking to a man in the entrance, and when he saw me entering the building, he was like "I gotta go, talk to you later". What is wrong with him? I've never had someone avoiding me to such lengths before. Edited November 22, 2013 by ShiningMoon
Philosoraptor Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 That's kinda creepy. I'd ask him straight why in the world he is avoiding you.
Mascara Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 He might think you like him. A lot of men don't like rejecting women they're not attracted to, so they just avoid them. And yes, I know you probably don't, and I know you've given him no indication... but we're talking about HIS perception here. What I don't think it is is that he likes you and is too shy, if that's what you're getting at. 2
confusedofattraction Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 Maybe he's trying to get your attention. He certainly has you thinking about him (while not in a good way mind you), but nonetheless, he's in your mind. I'd stop worrying about it as it is not worth your time.
Author ShiningMoon Posted November 22, 2013 Author Posted November 22, 2013 Huh? I've never acted interested. I barely look at him whenever I have to show my I.D and I've never smiled at him. I'm usually pretty cold. He's not my type at all and he's way older than me. It's the kind of guy I would never look at.
Mascara Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 Huh? I've never acted interested. I barely look at him whenever I have to show my I.D and I've never smiled at him. I'm usually pretty cold. He's not my type at all and he's way older than me. It's the kind of guy I would never look at. Ok, did you read my second paragraph?
todreaminblue Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 He might think you like him. A lot of men don't like rejecting women they're not attracted to, so they just avoid them. And yes, I know you probably don't, and I know you've given him no indication... but we're talking about HIS perception here. What I don't think it is is that he likes you and is too shy, if that's what you're getting at. i agree with this.....a shy guy wouldn't want to walk away with just you ..he would avoid all women if he doesn't .....and talks easily with others and just not you ....the issue is there with you ....if he has never attempted to talk to you or walks away from you when he sees you or if you attempt to talk to him........ maybe he does have the perception that you like him.....so he ignores you as much as he can......... could mean that he likes you too and is attracted to you....but unlikely if he talks to other women and is affectionate with them in front of you ...is he?...if he is ...the problem is you.....ask him............some guys can be difficult to read...one guy i know has avoided me when i have tried to reach out......and i always felt this tension between us a bit of a current......turns out ......we are two like magnets...lol...he is repulsed by me.......sad face...he told me in no uncertain terms.he doesnt like it when i write smilin atcha and he thinks i look eighty......i think i look more sixty...but heck that would mean my mother was six when she had me so i am actually 44...he over estimated my age by decades..bad move on a guys behalf..............such is life....i prefer to know..so ill find a guy who can see my young heart, preferrably a better age guesser and around my age a more mature out look needed to combat my goofiness.. talk to him, ask him directly that is my suggestion......deb
Confusedguy81 Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 Multiple Theories: Theory #1: he likes you. Theory #2: He's scared of you Theory #3: You may remind him of someone he has dated and you now fit that type he avoids Theory #4: He doesn't like you. Theory #5: You may smell funny to him Theory #6: If he is alot older than you, maybe he slept with your mom. Theory #7: Maybe he dated your sister Theory #8: No freaking clue 1
todreaminblue Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 Multiple Theories: Theory #1: he likes you. Theory #2: He's scared of you Theory #3: You may remind him of someone he has dated and you now fit that type he avoids Theory #4: He doesn't like you. Theory #5: You may smell funny to him Theory #6: If he is alot older than you, maybe he slept with your mom. Theory #7: Maybe he dated your sister Theory #8: No freaking clue exactly why the answer is to ask him herself...most guys if they have decency will be honest even if its brutal
Confusedguy81 Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 exactly why the answer is to ask him herself...most guys if they have decency will be honest even if its brutal but theories are so fun! much more fun than the truth:p
Author ShiningMoon Posted November 22, 2013 Author Posted November 22, 2013 - I've never talked to him because he's just the guy I show my ID to. I'm not interested in talking to him. - I've never smiled at him or looked at him - I don't know him personally - I am not attracted to him, it's just his behavior that I am curious about
Philosoraptor Posted November 22, 2013 Posted November 22, 2013 - I've never talked to him because he's just the guy I show my ID to. I'm not interested in talking to him. - I've never smiled at him or looked at him - I don't know him personally - I am not attracted to him, it's just his behavior that I am curious about He's the only one that can answer. By confonting him you will feed your curiousity and may even ease things for him as there is some reason he is avoiding you.
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